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5. To attract the right man for

marriage, you must take time to

define and clarify what you want

or desire in a husband.

It is possible to attract what you want and not know it simply because you

don’t understand your ‘want’.

One reason the men that approach you for marriage (apparently) are not

the types you would want to marry, whereas the types you would love to

marry seem not to notice you, is your ignorance of exactly what it is that

you want!

So, in order to attract the right man for marriage, it

is important to take time to define and clarify what

you want or desire in a husband.

A lady once told me that the most important thing she desired in a would-

be husband was he would let her continue to be a part of her church. She

wanted someone that would not interfere with her ministry,

responsibilities, and commitments to her church. In short, someone that

would give her room to be herself.

We were in a small group discussion when she said this and as the

discussion went on, we inquired about the men that were already in the

picture.

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