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4. To attract the right man for
marriage, you must never act
desperate
It can hardly be emphasized that desperation is a repulsive quality – it puts
people off. Don’t act desperate.
To attract the right man for marriage, don’t put pressure on yourself. You
don’t have to be married. It’s not required.
Stop telling yourself you have to get a ring on your finger.
Send a message that you “want to” be in a
relationship — not that you’ve “got to.”
Even if you hear your biological clock, it need not tick loudly enough for
every eligible man to hear it!
Keep in mind that if you are desperate to get married, you could be giving
out signals that are actually scaring away the opposite sex.
Seven percent of communication is verbal and the other 93 percent is
nonverbal. What kinds of nonverbal signals might you be sending out
regarding commitment?
When you feel the pressure of time, you can make mistakes, overlook
important details, or misjudge someone.
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