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So her misconception of the meaning of ‘drive’ created in her an

expectation of an impossible man! This resulted in a form of blindness that

prevented her from knowing that her dream man was already in her life.

7. To attract the right man for

marriage, you must comport

yourself with dignity.

Mind your signals.

Only 7 percent of communication is verbal. Become aware of the signals

you are sending out. Don’t send the wrong signals. Desperation, for

example, comes through in non-verbal communication.

How you package yourself affects the kind of people

that you attract.

For instance, there is a way you dress and you begin to send the signal,

‘I’m cheap…I’m available.’ Consequently, you begin to attract

irresponsible and promiscuous personalities, in spite of yourself.

So be very careful about the kind of signals that are springing from you.

The issue of how you package yourself is therefore of paramount

importance if you must attract the right man for marriage.

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