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Torah and his learning will be enhanced.
 minimizes his socialization will free up time to study
 In this chapter I will discuss the idea that one who
 153  ’11.
 discipline one’s speech.
 that govern \ that are relevant to the obligation to
 In this chapter I will discuss the conditions (qualities)
 143  ’10.
 within one’s speech.
 speaks.  Perhaps one of these aspects is contained
 of forbidden speech that must be avoided when one
 In this chapter I will discuss ten different aspects
 133  ‘9.
 one’s speech.
 that are the outcome of one’s obligation to discipline
 In this chapter I will explain 16 virtues (benefits)
 101  ‘8.
 likely to exceed his merits.
 of one who does not discipline his speech are very
 on  one’s  speech  and  thought.   The  transgressions
 the discipline (yoke) of mitzvot that are contingent
 91
 ‘7.
 In this chapter I will explain the obligation to accept
 sin.
 and lies in ambush there in order to cause him to
 Hara crouches by the openings of his mouth (lips)
 open only when necessary.  Also, that man’s Yetzer
 care that it is not constantly open, but rather it is
 an opening (like a door opening) and he must take
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 In this chapter I will explain that man’s mouth is like
 ‘6.
 about other topics.
 Heaven  accounts  it  as  a  merit.    I  will  also  speak
 sense,  when  one  speaks  well  of  his  fellow  Jew,
 prosecute against the speaker.  But in an opposite
 is  aroused  Above  and  the  attending  angels  will
 sin of Lashon Hara, the Attribute of Strict Justice
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 ‘5.
 In this chapter I will explain that by virtue of the
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                                              Preface
                                       םייח ץפח    Chafetz Chayim   Kuntres Chovat HaShemirah  and hasten the Geulah quickly in our lifetime, Amen.  before  Hashem Yitbarach  and  He  will  hasten  our  redemption,   so doing, our prayers and blessings will be graciously accepted   their speech and not cause their speech to become
                                 הרימשה תבוח סרטנוק
                                         החיתפ
 ד"סב
  םייח ץפח רפס    ,דֵסְפֶה וֹבּ שֵׁי יַלוּא וֹבּ ןֵנוֹבְּתִהְל וֹקְסִעְבּ ךְָכּ לָכּ זירִָז וֹניֵאְדּ
  ונתב תמשנ יוליעל שדקומ
 ה"ע הדירפ תב לזמ   הרָוֹתּ וּנְיַהְדּ ,חַצֶנָל םָדָאָל םיִמָיַּקַּה םיִסָכְנ לַע זֵמּרְַמ אָלֶּא
               ברֵָעְתִמ םִא ,םָתוֹדוֹא םוֹי לָכְבּ ןֵנוֹבְּתִהְל ךְירִָצֶּשׁ ,תוְֹצִמוּ
 This sefer is dedicated
 Le’Iluy Nishmat our daughter   .)הֶזָבּ רָמֲאַמַּה לָכּ םָשׁ יִתְּשׁרֵַפֶּשׁ ,ןוֹשָׁלַּה תרַיִמְשִׁבּ ןֵיַּע( םָבּ רֶצֵיַּה
 Mazal Bat Frieda  A"H
               םירִוּסֲאָה םירִוּבִּדּ ידְֵי לַעֶשׁ ,ןֵנוֹבְּתִהְל םָדָאָל וֹל שֵׁי דוֹע .ב
 A Remembrance of Mazal
               ביִתְכִדּ וֹמְכּ ,םִיַתָפְשַּׂה לַע הָאְמֻט ךְיִשְׁמַמ אוּה ,רֵבּדְַמ אוּהֶשׁ
 A  woman’s  role  in  life  is  to  actively  partner  with  HaKadosh   ."יִכֹנָא םִיַתָפְשׂ אֵמְט שׁיִא יִכּ" :)'ה 'ו הָיְעַשְׁי(
 Baruch Hu in sustaining His world by building a family in great
 modesty, joyfully nurturing all of its members and implanting    :רַמָא אָיִּח 'ר :ערָֹצְמ תַשׁרָָפּ שׁוֹדָקַּה רַהֹּזַבּ אָתיִאְדּ אָהְו[
 within them lasting values of Torah and Chessed.  That constant
 effort  spans  an  entire  lifetime;  nothing  comes  without  her    'וּכְו יוֹפְּיַשׁ לָכּ הֵּל ןָבֲאָתְּסִא אָשׁיִבּ אָנָשִּׁל קיִפַּאְדּ ןאַמ לָכּ
 investment of time and total involvement.  Her fulfillment comes    .)וירָָביֵא לָכּ וֹל םיִאָמְטִנ ,ערָָה ןוֹשָׁל איִצוֹמֶּשׁ יִמ לָכּ(
 from encouraging her husband to grow and from the pleasure
 at watching her children mature with a sense of happiness and    לַע הָאְמֻט וֹמְצַע לַע ךְיִשְׁמִה אוּהֶשׁ ןָויֵכִּמ ,ךְָכּ רַחַא וּנְיַה
 stability that will give them the ability to deal with all of life’s
 challenges.   לָכּ תֶא הֵבּרְַה וֹתוֹא אֵמַּטְל ארֲָחַא ארְָטִסַּה ַחֹכְבּ שֵׁי ,ויָתָפְשׂ
                                    .]וֹשְׁפַנ ירְֵביֵא
 Mazal fulfilled this role and more during her 34 years.  She had
 a joy  for  life  that  anchored  her  family  and  touched  everyone    רָהְטִנ םָשְׁדּ .הָלֵבְנִבּ אָמְטִנֶּשׁ יִמִּמ רֵתוֹי הָעוּרְגּ וֹז הָאְמֻטְו
 because she sincerely loved and cared for them, and in turn they
 all loved her.  She was the ultimate giver, always pleasant and    לָכְבּ רָהְטִנ וֹניֵאֶשׁ ,הֶזָבּ ןֵכּ ןיֵאֶשּׁ הַמ ,םִיַמ הֵוקְִמ ידְֵי לַע
 helpful, always accepting Hashem’s will without any expression
 of  personal  need  or  hardship,  with  charm  and  grace,  with    ךְיִשְׁמִהֶשׁ ןָויֵכּ ,דוֹע אלְֹו .הָבוּשְׁתּ אלְֹבּ םָלוֹעָבֶּשׁ תוֹמיֵמ
 humor and a fierce dedication for the well being of her young    הָאְמֻטַּה ַח ֹּכֶשׁ םרַָגּ ,טַעְמ וּלִּפֲא וֹשְׁפַנ לַע הָאְמֻט וֹמְצַעְבּ
 children.    With  absolute  faith  in  Hashem  she  never  worried
 about tomorrow; she was focused on today and on the good that    אָמוֹיְבּ םרָָמֲאַמְכּ ,]וֹתָמְשִׁנ שׁרֶֹשׁ לַע[ הָלְעַמְלִמ וֹתוֹא אֵמַּטְי
 could be done today.  She knew better than most of us that life    וֹתוֹא  ןיִאְמַּטְמ  -  הָטַּמְלִּמ  וֹמְצַע  אֵמַּטְמ  םָדָא  :).ט"ל  ףַדּ(
 is precious and she would strive not to waste a moment of it.
 She was a living Kiddush Hashem and an example of how we all   .הֵבּרְַה וֹתוֹא ןיִאְמַּטְמ - טַעְמ ,הָלְעַמְלִמ
 should lead our lives.
               רֹצְנ' :הָלִּפְתַּה רַחַא ףֶכֵתּ םוֹי לָכְבּ 'הֵמ םיִשׁקְַבְמ וּנָא .ג
 th
 Mazal was born on the 27  of Nissan 5732
 th
 Mazal’s neshamah returned home on the 27  of Elul 5766.   וּנָאֶשְׁכּ ?וֹז הָשָׁקַּבּ תֶכֶיַּשׁ יַתָמיֵא לָבֲא .'וּכְו 'ערֵָמ יִנוֹשְׁל
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 of Shemirat HaLashon as intended for us by Hashem Yitbarach.
 This instruction gives purpose and fulfillment to practicing a life
                                                                       4.  A reference to the First Man’s responsibility to preserve Gan Eden.
 within Kuntres Zachor LeMiryam.
 the  physical  practice  of  this  limud  is  contained
                                                                       is described by the pasuk as (Beresheet 9:6) “He created man
 The Chizuk, the encouragement which accompanies
                                                                       by virtue of our fulfillment of Torah and mitzvot.  This (concept)
 Yetzer Hara.
                                                                       by Gd Himself and He then gave us the power to achieve all this
 imparted by Shemirat HaLashon against the onslaught of one’s
                                                                       2:3) “that Elokim created to do,” that the initial roots were created
 and  by  the  gentle,  patient  administering  of  the  immunization
                                                                       commentary on Sefer Beresheet regarding the pasuk (Beresheet
                                                                       plantings.    This  is  similar  to  what  the  Ramban  wrote  in  his
 HaShemirah and Kuntres Kevod Shamayim.
                                                                       of our service (to Hashem) there still are created very beautiful
 level  is  the  essential  purpose  of  Kuntres  Chovat
                                                                       Yet even now that we have been banished from there, by virtue
 to  one’s  fellow  Jew  on  a  familial  and  communal
                                                                       mitzvah a beautiful plant would have been planted in Gan Eden.
 to  become  a  pleasant,  whole  person,  empathetic
                                                                       have seen with our own eyes that by our performance of each
                                                                       Eden) we would have fulfilled all of the mitzvot.   We would
 Character  building,  the  instruction  necessary
                                                                       us) there, just as it was given later at Mt Sinai, and there (in Gan
 nature and are a consequence of living Shemirat HaLashon;
                                                                       banished from Gan Eden, the Torah would have been given (to
 endearing midot which will become a part of this person’s human
                                                                       commandments.   Meaning, (namely) that if we had not been
 By demonstrating the character enhancements – the pleasant and
                                                                       commandments, “to protect it,” these are the negative (passive)
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                                                                       and to protect it.”  “to work it” these are the positive (proactive)
 how it relates to our personal lives.
                                                                       of our sages of blessed memory, (Beresheet 2:15) “to work it
 this  subject  in  Hashem’s  Torah,  and  by  extension
                                                                       HaTorah,  10   perek  [in  the  Hagahah],  regarding  the  teaching
                                                            th
 showing us over and over again the appearance of
                                                                       (As was explained in my sefer, Shem Olam, Sha’ar HaChezkat
 Shemirat  HaLashon  to  our  everyday  lives  by
 Shemirat  HaLashon  –  Book  1,  in  order  to  relate
                                                                       trivialized.
 Book  2  was  written  about  thirty-five  years  after
                                                                       to  protect  his  soul  will  not  endure  as  long  as  his  speech  is
 that Hashem Himself ascribes to this limud Torah;
                                                                       with weeds and thistles, and all of the safeguards man developed
 By showing him how to relate to these laws and the importance
                                                                       his speech, then he will find that his “vineyard” is overgrown
                                                                       one must protect it and guard it very well.  But if man trivializes
                                                                       vineyard in Gan Eden as is written in our holy writings.  Thus
 work without the other.
                                                                       by virtue of his Torah and good deeds is capable of planting a
 components  of  Shemirat  HaLashon,  one  cannot
                                                                       The explanation (of this parable) is as follows:  every single Jew,
 the mussar and the halacha are necessary integral
 it  is  the  “how  to”  of  Shemirat  HaLashon.    Both
                                                                       fence was breached.
 Torah of forbidden foods or the Torah of Shabbat;
                                                                       overgrown  with  weeds  and  thistles  and  a  (surrounding)  stone
 forbidden to us by the Torah, no different than the
                                                                       and the vineyard of an uncaring person and behold they were
 constitutes  language  and  communication  that  is
                                                                       this in) Mishle (24:30-31) “I passed by the field of a lazy man
 Sefer Chafetz Chayim is the structured law of what
                                                                       beautiful fruit that he hoped for.  (Shelomo HaMelech expresses
 application;
 carefully illustrating those laws with practical examples of their
                                                Introduction
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                                                          Kuntres Chovat HaShemirah
                                                   Chafetz Chayim
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