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10                Ways to Tell




                             If You Are



                             a Perfectionist


                                  You can usually spot a
                               perfectionist a mile away.



          1.  You are  highly  conscious and hypercritical  of
          mistakes. Hence, you have an extremely sharp eye
          towards details.

          2. You set absolute  ideals. There  is only black  or
          white, no grey.


          3.  You aim to be the best in everything you do,
          even if it is something that you’re not interested in.

          4.  You are harshest critic of yourself. You would
          beat  them  up over the  smallest  thing  that  went
          wrong, to the extent of being neurotic.

          5.  You spend copious amount of time, right down to
          the last moment, to perfect something. You would
          rather sacrifice your well-being (such as sleep, eat-
          ing time, etc.) than let something be less than it can
          be.

          6.   You are defensive  towards criticism  and have
          a fear of failure because it suggests something not
          perfect.

          7.  You only have the end goal in mind, if you don’t
          achieve the goal, it really does not matter what hap-
          pens in the process.

          8.    You are very self-conscious of any situation
          which may give others the perception you are not
          perfect.

          9.  You mull over outcomes if they did not turn out
          as envisioned. You wonder why it wasn’t a different
          outcome, and whether you could have done any-
          thing to prevent that.
          10.  You have an all-or-nothing approach. If the sit-
          uation does not allow him/her to achieve the stan-
          dard he/she lay out, she/he will abandon the task
          because it does not make sense to spend time on
          something that he/she is not going to conquer.

          If you are a perfectionist, you
          will find the above traits highly
          familiar to you.



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