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On the final pages of this workbook you will find several different types of tickets to
                   help  you  communicate  your  feelings.  These  tickets  have  been  designed  much  like
                   “coupons” that you can give away to any person whom you feel deserves one.  Each of
                   these coupons has been written in a way that allows you to identify your feelings and
                   share them with others in a non-threatening manner.


                   Please take a while to look them over so as to get an idea of how such a coupon might
                   be useful in your particular situation.  After you’ve had some time to read them over,
                   feel free to use each and every one of them if you feel the need to.  Some of them may
                   not pertain to your specific situation at the moment, but most of them can be helpful in
                   one way or another.


                   For the benefit of everyone, there are several different types of coupons available on
                   the  following  pages.    First,  there  are  the  love  coupons.    Everybody  can  benefit  from
                   using those.

                   Then we have the feeling coupons for those of you who have trouble getting in touch
                   with  and  communicating  how  you  feel.    To  go  along  with  those,  there  are  the
                   communication coupons which I also believe will be of great benefit to most of us.  The
                   forgiveness coupons will be of use to everyone, I am sure because most of us could do
                   with a little bit of self- forgiving.

                   As well, the Stop Blaming coupons will come in handy for those of you who would like
                   to  get  your  point  across  and  have  the  recipient  actually  hear  what  you  have  to  say
                   without getting defensive and starting an argument.   Whichever you decide to use or
                   not use is completely up to you.

                   You  may  have  someone  in  mind  that  would  benefit  from  giving  these  coupons  to
                   someone  they  care  about.    So  go  ahead  and  use  them  for  yourself  in  your  own
                   relationships  or  pass  them  around  and  share  them  with  others.    Just  be  sure  that
                   someone gets some use out of them as they  work wonders towards opening up the
                   lines of communication where other methods may have failed.






















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