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Stop Blaming Coupons


                   Starting a discussion with the words “I feel” instead of “You always” should enable the other person to
                   listen to you without feeling defensive.  Give it a try.




                   You always _______________________        You always _______________________
                   ____________________________________      ____________________________________
                   I feel ______________________________     I feel ______________________________
                   __________________________________        ____________________________________




                   You always _______________________        You always _______________________
                   ____________________________________      ____________________________________
                   I feel ______________________________     I feel ______________________________
                   ____________________________________      ____________________________________




                   You always _______________________        You always _______________________
                   ____________________________________      ____________________________________
                   I feel ______________________________     I feel ______________________________
                   ____________________________________      ____________________________________


                   You always _______________________        You always _______________________
                   ____________________________________      ____________________________________
                   I feel ______________________________     I feel ______________________________
                   ____________________________________      ____________________________________


                   You always _______________________        You always _______________________
                   ____________________________________      ____________________________________
                   I feel ______________________________     I feel ______________________________
                   ____________________________________      ____________________________________


                   You always _______________________        You always _______________________
                   ____________________________________      ____________________________________
                   I feel ______________________________     I feel ______________________________
                   ____________________________________      ____________________________________




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