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There’s	an	important	concept	in	psychology	put	forth	by	Julian	Rotter	in	1954.
It’s	called	“locus	of 	control.”	The	more	that	you	believe	that	you	are	in	control	of
your	 life,	 your	 actions	 and	 your	 future,	 the	 happier	 and	 more	 successful	 you’ll	 be.
There’s	one	thing	that	is	guaranteed	to	increase	your	feelings	of 	control	over	your
life:	a	bias	toward	action.

    Forget	motivation;	it’s	a	myth.	I	don’t	know	when	we	all	 bought	into	the	idea
that	 in	 order	 to	 change	 you	 must	 “feel”	 eager	 or	 “feel”	 motivated	 to	 act.	 It’s
complete	 garbage.	 The	 moment	 it’s	 time	 to	 assert	 yourself,	 you	 will	 not	 feel
motivated.	In	fact,	you	won’t	feel	like	doing	anything	at	all.	If 	you	want	to	improve
your	life,	you’ll	need	to	get	off 	your	rear	end	and	kick	your	own	butt.	In	my	world,	I
call	that	the	power	of 	a	push.

    One	of 	the	reasons	why	the	#5SecondRule	is	so	empowering	is	because	it	turns
you	into	the	kind	of 	person	who	operates	with	a	bias	toward	action.	If 	you	tend	to
overthink	 every	 move,	 you’ll	 discover	 the	 energy	 and	 confidence	 to	 stop	 thinking
and	 actually	 move.	 Using	 the	 Rule	 strengthens	 your	 belief 	 that	 you	 do	 have	 the
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