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That’s	 because	 you’ll	 realize	 you’ve	 been	 sleepwalking	 through	 life	 for	 a	 long
time.	 Something	 this	 simple,	 easy,	 and	 effective	 is	 also	 contagious.	 Crystal	 has
already	started	using	it	with	her	son:

    The	 first	 person	 I	 told	 about	 the	 Rule	 was	 my	 husband.	 Chris	 had	 definitely
noticed	 the	 changes,	 in	 particular	 that	 my	 bitchy	 demeanor	 was	 melting	 and	 that	 I
was	 actually	 being	 proactive.	 It	 didn’t	 take	 much	 to	 convince	 him	 that	 there	 was	 a
“secret	weapon”	mentality	he	was	living	without.

    He	 adopted	 the	 Rule	 and	 used	 it	 to	 make	 some	 major	 changes.	 He	 quit
drinking,	 started	 meditating	 daily,	 and	 exercising	 every	 morning.	 The	Rule	doesn’t
make	these	things	easy;	it	makes	them	happen.	That’s	why	I	describe	it	as	a	tool.

    Instead	of 	avoiding	the	creditor	calls	and	bankruptcy	letters,	we	5-	4-	3-	2-	1	to
hit	 it	 head	 on.	 I	 used	 5-	 4-	 3-	 2-	 1	 to	 push	 myself 	 to	 reach	 out	 to	 old	 coaching
clients	to	rev	up	the	referral	engine.	I	used	5-	4-	3-	2-	1	to	propel	myself 	to	go	on
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