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Now I know that stick-in-the-mud gremlin of yours thinks this power of
                positive thinking stuff is all a bunch of frothy guff. But if your self-
                awareness is up to snuff, you’ll notice that listening to your gremlin feels a

                helluva lot worse than affirmative self-talk. And it’s a damn sight worse for
                you. Shattering old concepts and replacing them with affirmative inner talk
                and images toward the goal of sweetening your very own life not only feels
                good, but is good for you. Used in conjunction with common sense and
                planning and doing, it can make for a noble transformation.


                     Settle into some affirmative heart-to-hearts with yourself, if only briefly,
                every day for ten days. Center yourself and then give the process a
                wholehearted go. Even if you feel phony for a few seconds at the beginning

                of each stint, just stick with it. Soon you will feel yourself settle into the
                experience. Consider the ten-day period a test run, and evaluate the results.
                If the process starts feeling like homework, drop it for a while. When you’re
                ready, pick up the challenge and get into it. Notice not just the long-term
                effects but the pleasure that emerges as you dabble within the process.


                     So let’s review some of the options you have to play with either by
                themselves or in various combinations:





                                            Breathe and fully experience


                                                 Change for a change


                                                  Accent the obvious


                                                     Just imagine it
















                     And here’s another:
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