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How society negatively impacts our

                                         perception of love







             Love  or  romance  is  something                  And this definition is learnt from
             that  is  seen  to  be  a  deeply                 what      society      teaches.       (Now
             personal  matter  throughout  the                 granted,  a  person  can  be  helped
             ages. A poetic, surreal experience                to    unlearn        his     internalized
             that comes from the depths of the                 misogyny,  and  this  piece  is  not  a
             heart, almost as an instinct. After               defense  claiming  that  society
             all, it has everything to do with a               teaches young men misogyny and
             small set of individuals with their               that nothing can be done about it.
             own      preferences,        biases      and      What yours truly aims to convey is
             experiences. But then, individuals                that society does play a huge role
             are     not    free     from      society’s       in  denting  our  outlook  which  is
             expectations  and  narratives,  and               internalized        over      the     years
             this  often  leads  to  a  warped                 through  various  channels  such  as
             perception  of  what  it  means  to               family,  movies,  etc  and  that

             love.                                             something must be done about it.
























             While  there  is  no  universally

             agreed upon definition on what it
             means  to  love,  one  can  definitely            This argument extends to not just
             agree  upon  the  fact  that  bringing            the  following  short  paragraph  on
             imbibed misogyny or phobias into                  masculinity         but       also       the
             a  relationship  -  as  is  the  case  in         subsequent  ones)  Let  us  begin
             many relationships, unfortunately                 with  the  medium  that  is  most
             - are certainly not the way to go.                talked  about  when  it  comes  to
             After      all,     how       a     person        misogyny:  movies,  a  topic  which
             approaches           a      woman          is     has  been  discussed  countless
             dependent  on  what  he  thinks                   times.
             masculinity and femininity mean.


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