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The results of this study showed           emotional      development       of
                        that  73  (85.88%)  of  the  85            children,  the  role  of  mothers  in
                        respondents  admitted  that  they          children's lives is very important
                        knew     what    fatherless    and         for    emotional     and     social
                        motherless  are,  as  many  as  12         development, because a mother
                        (14.12%)  respondents  did  not            will  ensure  a  safe  environment
                        know.  These  results  show  that          for her child, a mother will also be
                        the  adolescents  have  become             the  first  school  for  her  child,
                        aware  of  what  fatherless  and           ensure that her child can channel
                        motherless are.                            his creativity, regulate emotions,
                                                                   teach empathy and compassion,
                        Interview with RA informant:
                                                                   social     skills     such      as
                        “After  my  mother  was  busy  at          communication                skills,
                        work, I felt lonely because I had          collaborate, and more.
                        always been close to my mother,
                        nothing    with    my     mother,          Interview with DA informant:
                        complaining  to  my  mother,  and          “I  usually  have  a  problem
                        being happy to talk to my mother,          confiding  with  you,  but  when  I
                        sleeping  on  my  lap  was  always         have      received     input     or
                        on  my  lap.  So,  the  problem  of        alternatives  from  you,  I  usually
                        losing my mother figure is what I          think again and decide which of
                        think  is  very  difficult  and  I         the alternatives I take. I am also
                        respond  to  loneliness  or  fill  the     close  to  you,  you  often  ask  me
                        void  of  time  by  creating  with         how  his  school  activities  are,
                        friends,  at  least  the  longing  for     whether  he  needs  help  doing
                        my mother's memory is cured a              assignments  or  not,  and  so  on.
                        little,  sometimes  I  also  feel  at      It's also a good idea to talk to me
                        home  because  of  my  hobby  of           about anything that comes with a
                        singing."                                  scarf.”

                        Interview with WR informant:               A  total  of  80  (95.2%)  of  85
                                                                   respondents agreed that the role
                        “The  problem  I  am  facing  now
                        because  of  the  absence  of  a           of  the  father  involved  in  the
                        mother is the difficulty in dividing       child's  life  can  help  the  child's
                        my  time  because  I  am  still  in        development,  it  is  because  the
                        school,  I  have  to  study,  do           father will become a role model,
                        homework,  yes  it’s  like  my             role model, and will form a firm,
                        obligation  is  only  as  a  student,      confident, and other nature.
                        then what used to be homework              Interview with ZR informant:
                        was done by my mother who did              “After my parents divorced, I felt
                        it now so I do everything.”
                                                                   that I had lost my mother, even
                        The  results  of  the  interview           though my mother was still there,
                        observations  showed  that  as             my  mother  was  busy  working
                        many as 83 (98.8%) respondents             outside  the  city  and  rarely
                        felt  that  the  role  of  the  mother     contacted me, from the one who
                        was  very  important  for  the             used  to  be  close  to  my  mother
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