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Now even far away, my heart is             and children as one of the efforts
                        far away. So now I don't have a            to produce intelligent children, as
                        confidant that I can trust like my         well   as    improve     children's
                        mother if confiding with friends is        communication skills.
                        just  a  normal  problem.  I  have         The      biggest      factor     of
                        never  told  anyone  about  the            motherlessness        from     the
                        problem related to my friends."
                                                                   questionnaire results is the lack
                        Interview with AR informant:               of  time  with  mothers.  This  is
                                                                   because  mothers who  are  busy
                        “After my parents divorced and I
                        chose to go with my father, the            with  the  respondents'  siblings,
                        problem  that  arose  was  that  I         and  also  mothers  who  behave
                        couldn't  cook  yet.  Sometimes            badly,  such  as  often  getting
                        there  is  also  a  willingness  to        angry about something that is not
                        learn  to  cook  but  it  fails            the fault of the child, making the
                        constantly, it burns often salty or        child avoid the mother. Based on
                        has  no  taste,  it's  not  good           Nursing     Information    Journal
                        anyway.  Also,  if  I  clean  up  the      data, they say that 60% of people
                        women's work house, I can do it,           have  9  to  16  hours  with  their
                        but  rarely  because  if  I  am  at        mothers but almost 80% of that
                        home, I want to go out, I just want        time  is  not  used  effectively  to
                        to  go  out,  so  if  I  hang  out  with   educate  children's  morals  and
                        friends, I will be happy.”                 metals.  Fajarrini  and  Umam
                                                                   (2023) in their research highlight
                        The  results  of  the  interview           the  importance  of  the  father
                        observations  showed  that  31             figure  in  shaping  children's
                        (36.48%) of the respondents felt           characters.  They  explained  that
                        fatherless, the biggest factor that        fathers  and  mothers  have  a
                        made        them       experience          central  role  in  providing  moral
                        fatherlessness  was  the  father           and  ethical  examples,  which
                        who did not share time with his            greatly affect the development of
                        family and his father who worked           children's  character.  Children
                        from     morning      to     night.        who grow up without fathers tend
                        Meanwhile,  as  many  as  28               to  lack  guidance  in  terms  of
                        (32.94%)      respondents      felt        religious  and  moral  values.  The
                        motherless, the factor that made           lack  of  authority  figures  to
                        them  feel  motherless  was  the           provide this direction can result in
                        lack of time with their mother due         children being more susceptible
                        to parental divorce. As many as            to  behavior  that  is  not  in
                        26 (30.58%) respondents did not            accordance  with  social  and
                        want to talk about their feelings          religious norms. This shows how
                        about fatherless and motherless,           important the role of fathers is in
                        even  though  it  could  be  a             providing  moral  support  and
                        solution.  Parents  and  children          forming  a  strong  and  positive
                        must  communicate  frequently,             character in children.
                        the    importance      of    good
                        communication between parents
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