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Marriage is a journey marked by love, vulnerability, and the forgotten, an unsightly tree may suddenly emerge, yielding
potential for deep emotional wounds. The profound defiling fruits such as anger, depression, addiction, anxiety,
connection between spouses means that they hold the power or infidelity.
to hurt each other more deeply than anyone else. Inevitably,
conflicts arise, often stemming from selfish tendencies and Reestablishing trust in a marriage after it has been broken
brokenness. demands immense patience, skill, and, most importantly, time.

Our response to conflict is influenced by our personalities. FOR THE BETRAYED
Some charge into arguments with full force, while others To achieve genuine forgiveness, healing, and prevent
resemble hedgehogs, withdrawing into a defensive shell bitterness and resentment from taking root in your heart, it's
during conflicts. Additionally, there are those who adopt a crucial to recognize when to release and allow your spirit to
snake-like approach, maintaining composure and using mend.
manipulative tactics to achieve their desired outcome. In our
own home life, I tend to display rhino-like tendencies, Stay immersed in God's teachings and maintain an active
whereas Brenda leans more towards hedgehog behavior. This prayer life. Seek solace in the support and love of those
underscores the importance of self-awareness in navigating around you. Find reassurance in the efforts your spouse is
marital conflicts. exerting to reconcile with you.

The batai tree in Southeast Asia serves as a powerful FOR THE BETRAYER
metaphor for the unseen growth of unresolved issues. During For a time, you must hold yourself accountable for your
the initial years after planting, there's no visible growth above actions and whereabouts, especially concerning the betrayal.
ground. However, beneath the surface, roots extend in all Though it may feel intrusive, additional accountability is
directions, gathering nutrients and strength. Similarly, a seed indispensable and non-negotiable.
of hurt, disrespect, insensitivity, or anger can operate like the
batai tree's seed. It invisibly initiates the development of a Reconnecting with God nurturing your spiritual healing will
root system below the surface. Subsequently, long after being play a significant role in rekindling the closeness between
you and your spouse. Engaging in prayer, reading the Bible,
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