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The result of this assessment revealed that, husbands and wives expressed a sense
of satisfaction for their marriages, with men figure showing a higher level of
satisfaction in certain areas than for women. Psychometric research conducted by
the same research team (AMMS) revealed that, promise as a measure of marital
satisfaction among Muslim men and women.
Someone with common basics
Choosing someone whom you share common basics is good. If you like giving
birth after two years, then your idea should correlate with your spouse’s. A
difference in personal demands intensifies as we become old. However, when
selecting a spousal partner always make sure that your likes correlate with that of
your partner. This can be achieved by discussing the issue with your partner;
always have time to express what you feel and what you really like in your future.
If your likes differ from that of your partner then think twice, because you might be
in a wrong relationship.
Get someone who is ready with courtship before any marriage
Courtship before marriage is fundamental in spousal choice. The courtship period
allows each couple to read one another’s character, likes and dislikes. Avoid
marriage pretenders who pretend to be ready for marriage within couples of days.
Courtship is vital in marriage relationship since it helps the couples learn each
other’s character and traits. Grace period for courtship can take at least six to nine
months. After this period you will get to know what type of friend you are having,
and you will also know the direction of your relationship.
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