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counselling and mentoring office to the other seeking advices concerning their

uncorking relationship. They are all doing so to save their marriages from

collapsing. It's unfair to break a marriage which was constructed 10 years ago in a

single second.

There are numerous reasons why marriages are collapsing, one being, and lack of

proper information concerning the husband. Some men decide to cheat during

courtship about their financial stability. Why should one cheat during courtship

when he surely wants to build a strong union? We should always learn to speak the

truth to shame the devil. Cheating during courtship has no help, and it always

results in marriage conflicts few later after nikah. If we can speak the truth, we can

build a stronger, long-term union.

Lack of trust between husband and wife

Lack of trust between the couples is another ghost hunting our marriage

relationships. Couples should trust each other and learn to give mutual love to each

other, since if there is love; there is no room for distrust. To enhance trust in

marriage life, husband and wife should share and do things together. Sharing

passwords on communication devices, laptops, credit cards will build trust and

respect between each couple.

Regular domestic violence between married couples

Continuous domestic violence in the household is also another viper which is

killing numerous marriages. There are many reasons behind this menace. Lack of

commitment is one reason behind domestic violence, infidelity or adulterous also

leads to fighting in many marriages. We should reduce domestic violence by

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