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accepting, listening and understating each other, tell each other the truth concerning


          our daily hiccups, and mostly increase our love towards each other as the days goes

          by.



          Inadequate communication between the couples


          Lack of fair communication between husband and wife also reduces marriage


          value. Husband and wife should thoroughly communicate, share stories and their

          whereabouts together. Discussing issues concerning their daily life chores during


          bed time enhances good communication. Calling each other through mobile phones

          when they are not together is another way of good communication. Married couples


          should avoid ignoring each other's phones. Each time a phone call is ignored,

          something is cooked in the mind of the caller. Therefore, Good communication


          should be practiced at all times.


          Family influence



            Interference from the In-laws and other closely related family members also


          increases chance of failure in most marriages. Some family members have negative

          suggestions towards the married couples. Cases like, a wife being forced to stay or

          share one roof with her in-laws are very common. Married couples should be


          allowed to live where they feel conducive for them. The decisions on where and

          what to do is upon them, since they are longer young. A wife should be not be


          interfered by the family members, she should be given opportunity to exercise her

          duty and freedom towards her husband.









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