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accepting, listening and understating each other, tell each other the truth concerning
our daily hiccups, and mostly increase our love towards each other as the days goes
by.
Inadequate communication between the couples
Lack of fair communication between husband and wife also reduces marriage
value. Husband and wife should thoroughly communicate, share stories and their
whereabouts together. Discussing issues concerning their daily life chores during
bed time enhances good communication. Calling each other through mobile phones
when they are not together is another way of good communication. Married couples
should avoid ignoring each other's phones. Each time a phone call is ignored,
something is cooked in the mind of the caller. Therefore, Good communication
should be practiced at all times.
Family influence
Interference from the In-laws and other closely related family members also
increases chance of failure in most marriages. Some family members have negative
suggestions towards the married couples. Cases like, a wife being forced to stay or
share one roof with her in-laws are very common. Married couples should be
allowed to live where they feel conducive for them. The decisions on where and
what to do is upon them, since they are longer young. A wife should be not be
interfered by the family members, she should be given opportunity to exercise her
duty and freedom towards her husband.
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