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is often helpful to begin a problem-solving session by asking the involved
               parties to state their areas  of  agreement, rather than their differences.
               Periodically during the defining process, the parties should be asked to list
               the things upon which they have agreed.  By doing this, it is possible to get

               people to see how many agreements they have reached rather than how
               many disagreements they have left to resolve.

               As was discussed concerning conflict resolution and negotiation, the key to
               creative problem-solving is an understanding of the needs and desires of
               the other party.  Unless you have  a good idea  of  what the other person

               thinks the problem is, what they want, why they want it, and what they
               think might be fair, you will be groping in the dark for an outcome that
               will meet their interests  as  well as yours.  If a negotiation is to be
               successful, both sides must learn to say, “If I were in their place, maybe I
               would take  a similar position.”  Until you have managed to see the

               problem from the other person’s perspective as well, you haven’t really
               defined it.


               Step 2:  Researching the Problem

               Good research and information-gathering is also key to defining and

               ultimately resolving a problem or  set of problems.   It is important at an
               early stage in this process to learn as much as possible about the problem,
               including talking with those individuals involved in and/or familiar with
               the problem.  Asking insightful questions can go a long way in gaining a
               better understanding.


                       You can see a lot by looking.  Yogi Berra

               The organization needs good information to make good decisions.  In the
               absence of good data  and information, members  waste  time in pointless
               discussion  over opinions, and  the  problem  with opinions  is  that  we  all

               have different ones.

               Collecting  appropriate and accurate information is actually essential




               David Kolzow                                                                          195
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