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Sefer Chafetz Chayim                                                                   םייח ץפח רפס
                                Hilchot Esurei Rechilut                                                              תוליכר ירוסיא תוכלה
                                       Kelal Tet                                                                       'ט ללכ - םייחה רוקמ


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                                                                                                   רפּסל רוּסאדּ ,ןידּה יִפכִּמ רֵתוֹי )ט( הבּרַ הערָ ןוֹדּנּל וֹרוּפִּס
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                                                                                                        .םָשׁ וּנבַתכֶּשּׁ המ ,'ה ףיִעסבּ ןמּקַל ןיּעו .וילע
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                      Kelal  Tet                 (RK9 - 9   chapter)
                                                                                                   רוּסִּא  םוּשִּׁמ  וֹבּ  ןיאֶשׁ  ,דחא  ןינִע  דוֹע  ראבנ  הָתּעו .ג
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                An explanation of when gossip is permitted as the                                  עגְּפא םִא :רמאֶשׁ דחאל עמָשׁ  )י( םִא ,ןוֹגכּ ,תוּליִכרְ
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                conditions of this Kelal are fulfilled.  There are 15
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                                halachot in this Kelal.                                            וֹא ,וּנּפדּגאו וּנּפרְחא וֹא ,וּנּכּא ,ינוֹלְפּ םוֹקמבּ ינוֹלְפִל
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                                                                                                   ,הזבּ יוּלָתּ ,ןוֹממ ןינִעבּ וֹקיזּהל וֹנוֹצרְֶשׁ )אי( ,וּנּמִּמ עמָשֶּׁשׁ
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                                                                                                   המּכֶּשׁ ,רבכִּמ הז ןינִעל קזחמ אוּה )בי( הזּה שׁיִאה םִא
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             In our discussion above of the esur of Lashon Hara, in the 10  Kelal, we              יִפל ריִכּמ אוּהֶשׁ )גי( וֹא ,םירִחא םיִשׁנאל ןכ הָשׂע םיִמעְפּ
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             explained the circumstances which would permit one to speak Lashon Hara
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             against someone who was behaving inappropriately in an interpersonal                  יאדּובוּ ,אמלעבּ םוּזגּ ךְרֶדֶבּ ויִפִּמ ןכּ אצי אלֶֹּשׁ ,ןינִעה
             framework and this speaker intends to achieve a useful \ beneficial outcome.          לכוּי ילוּא ,וֹדּגנכֶּשּׁהל הז רבדּ תוֹלּגל ךְירִצ ,ןכּ הֶשֲׂעי
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             (Please see that reference).  In this Kelal we will explain the circumstances
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             under which someone would be allowed to gossip as long as the speaker’s               ךְא .*קזּה וֹא שׁוּיִּבּ וּנּמִּמ וֹל וּעיגּי אלֶֹּשׁ ידֵכִבּ וּנּמִּמ רהזִּהל
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             intent is to prevent some harm from occurring.  I ask Hashem for guidance             .ל"נּה םיִטרְָפּה לכּ ןכּ םגּ הזבּ וּרסחי אלֶֹּשׁ ,רהזִּל ךְירִצ
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             that I not make any mistakes in formulating these laws.
      Mekor Hachayim  RK9/ .      If  an  “observer”  sees  a  fellow  Jew  about  to  form  a     ,אוּה םוֹלָשׁ תאבה ללכִבוּ הבּרַ הוצִמ אוּה הז רבדדּ ףאו .ד
             Be'er Mayim Chayim on page 275
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             partnership in some venture with someone else and realizes that the
             partnership would result in a bad outcome, he is obligated (1) to
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                                                                                                   הזכּ ןינִע רפּסל רהמל אלֶֹּשׁ ,דֹאְמ רהזִּל שׁי ןכ יִפּ לע ףא
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             warn him in order to save him from a bad loss but he must comply
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             with the five conditions that I will explain shortly.
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                                                                                                   ןפּ ,ידִיִחיִבּ ינוֹלְפּ םוֹקְמִל ךְליל אלֶֹּשׁ ,וֹמצע תא עֵמוֹשּׁה
             Be'er Mayim Chayim on page 283
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                                                                                                   ,הזבּ אצוֹיּכּ תרֶחא הצֵע וֹא ,ינוֹלְפּ וֹתוֹא וּנּפרְחי וֹא ,וּנּכּי
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             RK9/2.  These are the conditions (that must first be fulfilled before                 הבּרְה םיִמעְפּ יִכּ .םהיניבֶּשׁ הטטְקּה קלּסְתּ הז ידֵי לעֶשׁ
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             gossip is allowed):
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                                                                                                   רבּגְּתי  ,וֹפרְחל  ינוֹלְפּ  תעדֶּשׁ  ךְיא  ,וֹל  רפּסיֶּשׁכּ  יוּצמ
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             (1).    One  must  be  very  careful  not  to  come  to  an  immediate
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             conclusion and decide that what he observed was a “bad” situation.                    וֹמצע תא םידּקְיו ,ינוֹלְפּ וֹתוֹא לע הז לֶשׁ וֹסְעכּ רֵתוֹי
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