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Sefer Chafetz Chayim               םייח ץפח רפס
 Hilchot Esurei Rechilut         תוליכר ירוסיא תוכלה
 Kelal Tet                         'ט ללכ - םייחה רוקמ


               רפּסל רוּסאדּ ,ןידּה יִפכִּמ רֵתוֹי )ט( הבּרַ הערָ ןוֹדּנּל וֹרוּפִּס
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                    .םָשׁ וּנבַתכֶּשּׁ המ ,'ה ףיִעסבּ ןמּקַל ןיּעו .וילע
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 Kelal  Tet                 (RK9 - 9   chapter)
               רוּסִּא  םוּשִּׁמ  וֹבּ  ןיאֶשׁ  ,דחא  ןינִע  דוֹע  ראבנ  הָתּעו .ג
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 An explanation of when gossip is permitted as the    עגְּפא םִא :רמאֶשׁ דחאל עמָשׁ  )י( םִא ,ןוֹגכּ ,תוּליִכרְ
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 halachot in this Kelal.   וֹא ,וּנּפדּגאו וּנּפרְחא וֹא ,וּנּכּא ,ינוֹלְפּ םוֹקמבּ ינוֹלְפִל
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               ,הזבּ יוּלָתּ ,ןוֹממ ןינִעבּ וֹקיזּהל וֹנוֹצרְֶשׁ )אי( ,וּנּמִּמ עמָשֶּׁשׁ
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               המּכֶּשׁ ,רבכִּמ הז ןינִעל קזחמ אוּה )בי( הזּה שׁיִאה םִא
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 against someone who was behaving inappropriately in an interpersonal    יאדּובוּ ,אמלעבּ םוּזגּ ךְרֶדֶבּ ויִפִּמ ןכּ אצי אלֶֹּשׁ ,ןינִעה
 framework and this speaker intends to achieve a useful \ beneficial outcome.      לכוּי ילוּא ,וֹדּגנכֶּשּׁהל הז רבדּ תוֹלּגל ךְירִצ ,ןכּ הֶשֲׂעי
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 under which someone would be allowed to gossip as long as the speaker’s    ךְא .*קזּה וֹא שׁוּיִּבּ וּנּמִּמ וֹל וּעיגּי אלֶֹּשׁ ידֵכִבּ וּנּמִּמ רהזִּהל
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 intent is to prevent some harm from occurring.  I ask Hashem for guidance   .ל"נּה םיִטרְָפּה לכּ ןכּ םגּ הזבּ וּרסחי אלֶֹּשׁ ,רהזִּל ךְירִצ
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 that I not make any mistakes in formulating these laws.
 Mekor Hachayim  RK9/ .      If  an  “observer”  sees  a  fellow  Jew  about  to  form  a    ,אוּה םוֹלָשׁ תאבה ללכִבוּ הבּרַ הוצִמ אוּה הז רבדדּ ףאו .ד
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               הזכּ ןינִע רפּסל רהמל אלֶֹּשׁ ,דֹאְמ רהזִּל שׁי ןכ יִפּ לע ףא
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               רֹמְשׁי וֹרוּפִּס ידֵי לעֶשׁ ,ןינִעה יִפל ןנוֹבְּתיֶּשׁ רחא םִא יִכּ
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 with the five conditions that I will explain shortly.
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               ןפּ ,ידִיִחיִבּ ינוֹלְפּ םוֹקְמִל ךְליל אלֶֹּשׁ ,וֹמצע תא עֵמוֹשּׁה
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               ,הזבּ אצוֹיּכּ תרֶחא הצֵע וֹא ,ינוֹלְפּ וֹתוֹא וּנּפרְחי וֹא ,וּנּכּי
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               רבּגְּתי  ,וֹפרְחל  ינוֹלְפּ  תעדֶּשׁ  ךְיא  ,וֹל  רפּסיֶּשׁכּ  יוּצמ
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 (1).    One  must  be  very  careful  not  to  come  to  an  immediate
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 conclusion and decide that what he observed was a “bad” situation.      וֹמצע תא םידּקְיו ,ינוֹלְפּ וֹתוֹא לע הז לֶשׁ וֹסְעכּ רֵתוֹי
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