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Sefer Chafetz Chayim                                                                   םייח ץפח רפס
                                Hilchot Esurei Rechilut                                                              תוליכר ירוסיא תוכלה
                                       Kelal Tet                                                                       'ז ללכ - םייחה רוקמ


             Din by two witnesses who testified against Plony and the Beit Din                     ליֵעל וּנכרַאהֶשׁ וֹמכוּ ,םירִחא םיִמעְט דוֹעו( רעצו קזּה הז ידֵי לע
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             subsequently gave Shimon permission to act against Plony, as was
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             explained in the 6  Kelal, in the 9  and 10  halachot.  Apart from                    דע הזבּ ןיִלָשׁכנֶּשׁ םיִשׁנא שׁיו .)ב"י ףיִעס 'ח ללכּ 'א קלחבּ
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             all of this, it is very difficult to illustrate this law in a practical sense         וֹל רכמֶּשׁ ,תוֹרוֹחסִבּ *ירִכנ ינְפִבּ םוּמ ןיִליִטּמֶּשׁ ,דֹאְמ
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             (meaning it is difficult to illustrate the leniency allowing two men
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             to legally convey gossip to Shimon who then causes a loss to Plony)                   אצוֹיּכּ לכו( אנוגּ יאהכּ לכו וֹל הָשׂעֶשׁ הכאלְמִבּ וֹא ,לארְָשׂי
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             because it is completely improbable to find two speakers who are                               ָ    ָ  ַ  ְ  ַ  ַ  ְ  ֵ  ֶ        ָ   ֶ  ָ
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             familiar with all of the details of the law that relates to this topic                דרֵוֹי םיִמעְפּ המּכו ,רעצו קזּה וֹל םרֵוֹגֶּשׁ יוּצמ הזבוּ ,)הזבּ
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             and who can then assess the consequences of their report and that                                      .הז ידֵי לע שׁמּמ וייּחל
             Shimon’s subsequent reaction against Plony will be consistent with
             the Torah’s law.  Therefore, one must be careful not to convey any
             information to someone who is quick to react \ retaliate without the
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             consent of the Beit Din in order that he not become trapped in the                    ןוֹשׁלבּ וֹמכּ אוּה וֹנידּ ,תוּליִכרְ תלבּקַ רוּסִּא ןינִעלוּ .ה
             net of those people who speak Lashon Hara.  “Those who guard                          ןכּ לע .םָשׁ ןיּע ,ד"י ג"י ףיִעסבּ 'ח ללכִבּ 'א קלחבּ ,ערָה
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             their  mouths  \  speech  protect  their  souls  from  tragedy”  (Mishle
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              1:  ).                                                                               וּלִּפאו ,םדא םוּשִּׁמ תוּליִכרְ לבּקַל אלֶֹּשׁ ,דֹאְמ רהזִּל שׁי
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                                                                                                   לבּקְַמ אוּהֶשׁ המּבֶּשׁ ,אצְמנ ,בֵטיה ןנוֹבְּתנ רֶשׁאכו .וֹתְּשִׁאֵמ
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             Be'er Mayim Chayim on page 327
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                                                                                                   ךְכּ וילע רבּדּ ינוֹלְפֶּשׁ ,וֹל הרְָפִּסֶּשׁ המּבּ ,וֹתְּשִׁאֵמ תוּליִכרְ
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             RK9/7.  This is also the law regarding informing someone (Shimon)                     איִבֵמ אוּה ,תוּליִכרְ תלבּקַ לֶשׁ יִמצעה ןוֹעה דבל ,ךְכו
             (23) that someone else (Plony) stole from him or harmed him in                        לבּקְַמ הּלֲעבֶּשׁ הָּתוֹארְִבּ יִכּ ,תוֹבּרַ תוֹרצ הז ידֵי לע וֹמצעל                                                                                            VOL-4
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      Mekor Hachayim  listed above (in RK9/2) and that he also first rebuked Plony and             .שׁפנ ןוֹבאדַו הבירְִמוּ הצּמוּ סעכּ ידֵיִל הז ידֵי לע וּתּאיִבְמוּ                                                                                             3
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             some way or did some other “bad” to him; it (conveying the report)
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             is not permitted until the speaker complies with all of the conditions
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             Plony ignored him.  But if the speaker is not in compliance with all
             of these conditions it is forbidden for him to convey that report to
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                                                                                                   תרֶפּסְמֶּשׁכּ ,וֹתְּשִׁאבּ רֹעגִל שׁפנ לעבל דֹאְמ ןוֹכנּה ןכּ לע
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             Shimon, as I wrote above in the 1  Kelal, in the    halacha.  Please
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             see that reference.  Another detail to be extremely careful about
             is not to rationalize and immediately decide what the law should
             be (in these kinds of cases and that one is allowed to convey his
             report to Shimon).  Rather, from the very outset he should consider
             carefully whether or not he complies with all of these rules, because
             if he does not first think this through he will very likely violate the
             Torah’s Lav against conveying gossip.
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