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case where the psychiatric opinion is that she has an acute but   tious about imparting sad or painful news directly, instead hinting or                                                                                                                                 #
 transient psychiatric illness? Here too, the chances are very great   alluding to the unfortunate circumstance.
 that she will not repeat what she did, though there is a certain   
 possibility that it will happen.
 4. If the answer to the previous question is that she does have to
 reveal her past, do her siblings also have to reveal it when they
 are in the process of seeking a shidduch for themselves, as exem-  Telling Someone about a Serious Genetic
 plified in cases one and three above?  Disease of Which He is a Carrier
 5.  A similar question  sometimes comes  up about  children  or   1   Question
 teenagers who had one or two epileptic seizures. According to
 statistics, they have a 20% chance of recurrence of an epileptic   I am a neurologist who lives in the United States and am involved in
 seizure within a year. The longer the interval from then, the   genetic research for an illness for which there is no cure. Symptoms
 less chance there is of a recurrent seizure, so that after three   of the illness appear at approximately age forty, and cause great suf-
 or four years the chances of recurrent seizures are not signifi-  fering until the patient generally dies in the hospital. A patient who
 cantly higher than that of anyone else. In view of these facts,   carries this illness transmits the disease to about 50% of his offspring.                                                                                                                              20818_efi-ab - 20818_park-C_efi-ab | 2 - B | 18-08-20 | 13:46:23 |
 we generally advise against treatment with medications, unless   Within the framework of the research, I inform the patients that all                                                                                                                                    #20818_efi-ab - 20818_park-C_efi-ab | 2 - B | 18-08-20 | 13:46:23
 there were additional seizures or if there are abnormalities on   information will be kept in confidence, even from them.
 the electroencephalogram (EEG).     A family whose members had this illness was part of my study.
           When I tested their eighteen-year-old daughter, the tests showed that
 The question is, when a match is suggested, is the person obligated   she is a carrier of the disease.
 to reveal this single episode of epileptic seizures? Perhaps since there   My question is: Should I reveal this to her or not? I believe that
 is no evidence that he suffers from epilepsy, he need not reveal this to   if I do tell her, she will suffer a severe mental collapse. On the other
 a potential mate?
           hand, it is clear to me that her future husband would be unknowingly
 Prof. …, Expert Neurologist  falling into a trap. Must I reveal this to her or is it preferable to “sit and
           do nothing?” Why have mercy on the future groom at her expense?
 We sent this question to Professor Matityahu Wiesenberg. His   What is your opinion?
 response was as follows:
 The ethical question has already been posed to psychologists and   1   AnsweR
 psychiatrists throughout the world. In the United States there is a
 great expert on suicide research and methods of treatment by the   It seems to me that one would be obligated to inform those sons and
 name of Professor Schneidman of the University of California.  (He   daughters who are ready for marriage and involved in shidducim. They
 is the publisher of the renowned journal Suicidology.) He advises   need to know that they are carriers of a hereditary disease, so that
 those who attempted suicide to deceive a potential mate and to hide   they can tell prospective mates about it. However, one should not
 this fact from them.    cause pain to those who have not yet reached adulthood by informing
 He believes that since in most cases there is no recurrence, we   them of their condition before it is necessary.




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