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                 The guarantee was a lot of money in those days, but the boys agreed and proceeded to
                 promote the concert. They worked hard, only to find that they had grossed only $1,600.
                 After  the  concert  the  two  boys  told  the  great  artist  the  bad  news.  They  gave  him  the
                 entire $1,600, along with a promissory note for $400, explaining that they would earn the
                 amount at the earliest possible moment and send the money to him. It looked like the end
                 of their college careers.
                 "No, boys," replied Paderewski, "that won't do." Then, tearing the note in two, he returned
                 the  money  to  them  as  well.  "Now,"  he  told  them,  "take  out  of  this  $1,600  all  of  your
                 expenses and keep for each of you 10 percent of the balance for your work. Let me have
                 the rest."
                 The years rolled by. World War I came and went. Paderewski, now premier of Poland,
                 was striving to feed thousands of starving people in his native land. The only person in
                 the world who could help him was Herbert Hoover, who was in charge of the US Food
                 and Relief Bureau. Hoover responded and soon thousands of tons of food were sent to
                 Poland.
                 After the starving people were fed, Paderewski journeyed to Paris to thank Hoover for the
                 relief sent him.
                 "That's all right, Mr. Paderewski ," was Hoover's reply. "Besides, you don't remember it,
                 but you helped me once when I was a student at college, and I was in trouble."

                 It is one of the most beautiful compensations of life that no man can sincerely try to help
                 another without helping himself.

                                                                                  --Ralph Waldo Emerson

                 Goodness has a way of coming back; that is the nature of the beast. One doesn't have to
                 do good with a desire to get back. It just happens automatically.

                 WE SEE THINGS NOT THE WAY THEY ARE BUT THE WAY WE ARE

                 There is a legend about a wise man who was sitting outside his village. A traveler came
                 up and asked him, "What kind of people live in this village, because I am looking to move
                 from my present one?" The wise man asked, "What kind of people live where you want to
                 move from?" The man said, "They are mean, cruel, rude." The wise man replied, "The
                 same kind of people live in this village too." After some time another traveler came by
                 and asked the same question and the wise man asked him, "What kind of people live
                 where  you  want  to  move  from?"  And  the  traveler  replied,  "The  people  are  very  kind,
                 courteous, polite and good." The wise man said, "You will find the same kind of people
                 here too."
                 What is the moral of the story?
                 Generally we see the world not the way it is but the way we are. Most of the time, other
                 people's behavior is a reaction to our own.

                 TRUST

                 I believe all relationships are trust relationships, such as employer employee, parentchild,
                 husband wife, student / teacher, buyer / seller, customer / salesperson. How can we have
                 trust without integrity? Crisis in trust really means crisis in truth. Trust results from being
                 trustworthy.
                 What are the factors that build trust?






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