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                 ♦  everyone else does it,
                 ♦  or no one does it, or
                 ♦  it is all your fault.

                 People who don't accept responsibility shift the blame to their parents, teachers, genes,
                 God, fate, luck or the stars.
                 Johnny  said,  "Mama,  Jimmy  broke  the  window."  Mama  asked,  "How  did  he  do  it?"
                 Johnny replied, "I threw a stone at him and he ducked."
                 People  who  use  their  privileges  without  accepting  responsibility  usually  end  up  losing
                 them.
                 Responsibility involves thoughtful action.

                 Pettiness Causes Us to Ignore Our Responsibilities

                 Think about it. Petty minds are busy passing the buck rather than doing what needs to be
                 done.

                 Social Responsibility

                 Ancient Indian wisdom teaches us that our first responsibility is to the community, second
                 to  our  family  and  third  to  ourself.  A  society  starts  degenerating  when  this  order  is
                 reversed.  Social  responsibility  ought  to  be  the  moral  obligation  of  every  citizen.
                 Responsibility and freedom go hand in hand. A sign of a good citizen is that he is willing
                 to pull his own weight.

                                          The price of greatness is responsibility.
                                                                                       --Winston Churchill

                 Societies  are  not  destroyed  by  the  activities  of  rascals  but  by  the  inactivity  of  good
                 people. What a paradox! If they can tolerate destruction by being inactive, how can they
                 be good? The question is, are they discharging their social responsibility?

                         For evil to flourish, good people have to do nothing and evil shall flourish.
                                                                                          --Edmund Burke

                 Step 2: Consideration

                 One day, a ten-year-old boy went to an ice cream shop, sat at a  table and asked the
                 waitress,  "How  much  is  an  ice-cream  cone?"  She  said,  "seventy-five  cents."  The  boy
                 started counting the coins he had in his hand. Then he asked how much a small cup of
                 ice-cream was. The waitress impatiently replied, "sixty five cents." The boy said, "I will
                 have the small ice-cream cup." He  had his ice-cream, paid the  bill and left. When the
                 waitress came to pick up the empty plate, she was touched. Underneath were ten one-
                 cent coins as tip. The little boy had consideration for the waitress before he ordered his
                 ice-crearn. He showed sensitivity and caring. He thought of others before himself.

                 If  we  all  thought  like  the  little  boy,  we  would  have  a  great  place  to  live.  Show
                 consideration, courtesy, and politeness. Thoughtfulness shows a caring attitude.







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