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Who can I call? This list can include   replaced. Luckily, she learned how   thought is to calm himself with
           a family member, friend, spiritual   to develop her internal and external   a drink at the bar near his home.
           leader, or therapist. The people on   resources, as well as a trauma   Remembering his recovery plan,
           this list are those who will listen, be   recovery plan in a resilience class   he fishes it from his wallet. A small
           supportive, and help you to make   during a work training.           doodle of his church dominates one
           healthy choices.                     After reading her list, she decides   side of the paper. His church is also
                                             her dad is the best person to call.   on his way home. He checks the
           What can I do? Again, think about   They chat for a few minutes, and   time, then pulls out his phone to
           healthy choices. For example: taking  her mood starts to improve. Then   call his pastor.
           a nap, eating a healthy meal instead   she mentions the air conditioner   Keep in mind that your trauma
           of stopping for fast food, opting   and how thankful she is to have   recovery plan needs to adapt
           for water or tea over alcohol, going   started an emergency fund as an   to each situation. A phone call
           for a brisk walk, and engaging in   external resource several months   to a friend may lift your spirits.
           meditation or prayer. Develop a list   ago. Even though she doesn’t want   However, if you have endured a
           of positive things to do, then choose   to spend her savings on a new air   truly traumatic event—such as
           from those instead of doing what is   conditioning unit, she tells to her   Kevin did— a call to your pastor or
           fast, easy and generally unhealthy.  dad how much worse the situation   therapist might be in order as well.
                                             would be without that extra money   But listing several options within
           Where do I go? Healthy choices    she was saving for a rainy day.    your plan can you help to your
           need to made here as well. Choose    In this example, Chris had been   achieve a positive and healthier
           to go to the gym or church instead   intentional about building her   outcome.
           of a bar. Another healthy choice is   resources to become more resilient.
           to spend time in nature, which has   As a result, she has the money   Concluding Thoughts
           shown to provide incredible health   needed to replace the AC in her new   The next time you experience
           benefits—including the ability to   home. She won’t experience the   trauma or adversity, intentionally
           lower cortisol, a stress hormone.  trauma of sweating it out for several  use your resources to help you
             To develop your own trauma      weeks while she tries to save the   recover in a quicker and healthier
           recovery plan, start by creating a   money after the problem occurred. She   way. Look at your trauma recovery
           list under those three questions.   also made the conscious decision to   plan and choose the healthier path.
           Add healthy options including     call her dad to lighten the moment.   And while you are at it, take note
           people, activities, and places. Then   By intentionally building resources   of how those choices aided in your
           as you develop more resources, add   and implementing the plan, the   recovery.
           these to the list so that there are   situation had a positive outcome.  In doing so, you can train your
           more healthy options from which                                      brain to naturally look for those
           to choose in times of need. Find a   Traumatic Trigger               healthy actions in the future—
           convenient place to store the list for   Kevin has worked in his facility   because you understand how
           when a quick retrieval is needed.  for more than 30 years. He is     beneficial healthy choices are for
                                             very much looking forward to his   you. 
           Recovery Plan in Action           retirement at the beginning of the
             Let’s look at a couple of examples   summer, when he plans to spend
           of a trauma recovery plan in action.  most of his time with his grandkids.   Colonel Brenda Dietzman spent
                                             Just before the end of his day shift,   28 years in law enforcement and
                                             he discovers an inmate attempting   corrections, retiring as the undersheriff
           Broken AC Unit                    suicide. Yelling for help, he and   in charge of jail operations in Wichita,
             Chris just started her job and                                     Kansas. She is an IADLEST certified
           moved into her first house. One day,   another officer are able to stop the   trainer and has presented to national
                                             inmate and get him to medical
           she came home from work tired,    for help. Unfortunately for Kevin,   and international audiences on
                                                                                resilience and a variety of leadership
           hot, and stressed out. But instead   this traumatic event has triggered   topics. She can be contacted through
           of walking into a cool house, the   another event from Kevin’s past   her website at brendadietzman.com or
           temperature in her foyer is higher   when his efforts to help a suicidal   directly at brenda@brendadietzman.
           than the heat index outside. Upon   inmate were less successful.     com.
           investigation, she finds her air
           conditioner not working. Given its   Sitting in his car after clocking
           age, she suspects that it needs to be   out, Kevin’s hands are shaking and
                                             his breathing is ragged. His first



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