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           The Legacy of Spiritual Masters


           By Dr Miles Neale





















           Dr Miles Neale, PsyD, is a Buddhist psychotherapist   Benny: Could you share with us how you first
           in private practice, and founder of the Gradual Path,   became interested in Buddhism, and why
           an integrated ecosystem for Buddhist inspired online   specifically Tibetan Buddhism?
           courses, private mentoring, podcast, pilgrimages,
           and service projects. He has taught psychology     Miles: Apparently, I have a very strong past life connection
           and meditation at prestigious university hospitals   with Buddhism. In 1996 when I was 20 years old, I found
           including Harvard, Columbia, and Cornell. Author   a pamphlet in my college about Antioch Buddhist Studies
                                                              program offering a semester-long cultural immersion in
           of Gradual Awakening (Sounds True, 2018) and co-   Bodhgaya, India. While most of my peers were gearing up
           editor of Advances in Contemplative Psychotherapy   to travel to Florence to study architecture, or to London for
           (Routledge, 2023), Miles is currently writing his   economics, I was attracted to the idea of meditating with
           next book Return with Elixir: Pilgrimage of the    monks at 5 am and studying philosophy in a village in the
           Soul Through Death and Rebirth (Inner Traditions,   poorest state in India. It was not a typical choice.
           2024). With more than twenty years integrating the
           mind, science and meditation of Tibetan Buddhism   I remember sitting around the dinner table with my
           with clinical psychology, Miles is a forerunner in the   parents two weeks before departure, scouring the
           emerging fifth wave of psychotherapies integrating   family atlas, but unable to locate Bodhgaya on the
           trauma research, psychedelics, sound therapy, tantra,   map! My parents thought I was mad, but supported
                                                              me anyway. Essentially, I was venturing into the
           Jungian shadow-work, and sacred journeys into the   unknown, being guided by something I was not fully
           process of healing mind, body, and soul.           aware of. At that time in my life, I was experiencing

                                                              much depression and anxiety. I never quite fit in to my
           Realizing that Miles is a student of both Lama Zopa   family or culture; their materialistic and consumerist
           and Geshe Tenzin Zopa, Benny Liow asks him about   urges never satisfied my soul. Until I reached India and
           how one should relate to a spiritual master, especially   the monastery, I never had an alternative way of life to
           when the spiritual master has just passed away.    consider, and so was adrift and searching for spiritual
                                                              sustenance. During the five months I lived in Bodhgaya,
                                                              studying and practicing intensively, very deep karmic
                                                              fruitions occurred, including what seemed like past
                                                              life impressions such as a feeling that I had been here
                                                              before, and that I had returned to a familiar place.
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