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laying in that bed and being treated so
            horribly made me want to fi ght harder.

            Having a chronic illness is something
            I wouldn’t wish on anyone but having
            multiple chronic illnesses is even worse.
            Endometriosis is linked to so many other
            illnesses its almost like you are waiting to
            see what happens next. Having someone
            to talk to and doctors that will listen
            are two of the most important parts
            of this journey. You must advocate for
            yourself and you have every right to ask
            for another doctor and to decide if you
            will be seen by certain other doctors.  It’s
            scary and it’s hard to advocate for your-
            self because so many doctors think they
            know everything about most conditions.
            I would rather have a doctor say that
            they do not know much about endome-
            triosis and ask questions then to assume
            things that are not true.
            Endometriosis has taken so much from
            me but it has also given me a voice, a
            voice that cannot and will not be quieted
            until everyone knows what endometrio-
            sis is and how it can affect your daily
            life.  So many women have the common
            endometriosis issues such as infertility,
            extreme pain, extreme fatigue, gastro-
            intestinal issues, pain during and aft er
            intercourse and many emotional and
            mental health issues.
            Everyone wants to judge people and that
            is the last thing we need to be doing.
            Yes, I look OK on the outside and I am
            usually pretty good at pretending I’m
            OK, but I always say if I could put on the
            outside of my body what’s on the inside,
            most would stay ten miles away from
                                               anything you can do except be there and   We are having our Third Annual Go
            me and I know so many other women
                                               be supportive.                    Yellow for Endo Day on March 15th.
            feel that way.
                                                                                 I ask you to please wear yellow, share
                                               March is Endometriosis Awareness
            If you don’t know about endometrio-                                  your story, put a yellow light outside
                                               Month and I feel as though I need to
            sis that’s OK, but all you have to do is                             your house, turn your facebook yellow
                                               speak up and help as many people as
            ask someone who is suffering from this                               and post your picture on our page, Endo


                                               possible.  Though I try to educate others
            disease and most of us would be more                                 Warriors of the Eastern Shore.
                                               all year, March is full force with Town
            than happy to explain it to you. We

                                               Hall Meetings, County Commissioner   Thank you for your time, understanding
            struggle daily with so many emotions
                                               meetings and speaking to as many   and support to show these women and
            mentally and physically. I sometimes
                                               people as possible. So many towns and   young girls they are not alone.  They
            feel like I am not a good enough mom,
                                               counties, along with companies and   have an amazing community ready and
            wife, daughter, friend, and aunt, but then
                                               organizations, have shown so much   willing to fight with them.

            I remember these people love me and
                                               support over the last four years and
            unfortunately, endometriosis is a family
                                               I want to keep building on that. The
            disease.  Each woman’s family struggles
                                               support from the community helps so
            as well because they wish they could do
                                               many of us know we are not alone.
            something to help and there really isn’t
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