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Vogelhuber, Scheelen - What people really want

                   Viewing  an  action  exactly  as  if  the  viewer  were  performing  the
                   action himself.

                   The mirror neurons make us feel pain - for example - when we
                   witness  another  person's  pain.  However:  Conversely,  they
                   ensure  that  we  are  in  a  good  mood  and  smile  when  our
                   conversation  partner  shows  these  feelings.  They  sometimes
                   even cause us to imitate other people's actions. And that means
                   for your consulting and sales talks, for example:


                        The customer receives what you radiate.

                   So  if  you  go  into  the  consultation  grouchy  and  listless,  you
                   shouldn't be surprised if the customer mirrors this behavior. But
                   since  the  whole  thing  fortunately  also  works  the  other  way
                   around, the mirror neurons naturally help you to get on the same
                   wavelength  as  the  customer,  so  that  as  a  profiling²  expert  you
                   can recognize what makes him tick and then offer him exactly the
                   products and exactly the services that have a high utility value for
                   him.



                   Profiling² tip 3: Generate sympathy


                   You probably know this from your own experience: People are
                   often more likely to be persuaded by someone they know or
                   find  likeable.  Physical  attractiveness,  for  example,  seems  to
                   trigger  the  well-known  "halo  effect.  We  infer  from  known
                   characteristics  of  a  person  to  the  unknown  characteristics.  If
                   we  find  someone  likeable,  we  trust  him  or  her  to  have  only
                   good qualities. www.karrierebibel.de states: "In a nutshell, the
                   halo effect describes




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