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THE POWER OF READING PEOPLE


           Understanding the various drivers and motivators enriches our com-
           prehension of ourselves and others, including those whom we might
           not instinctively favor or may even dislike. Use the following infor-
           mation to succinctly differentiate between opposing motivators:

           •  A utilitarian individual will invest in ventures that promise tangible
               returns, whereas a theoretical individual dedicates their senses to or-
               ganizing and discerning the truth within a task or concept.

           •  Someone with an aesthetic motivation realizes their fullest po-
               tential in environments that are in sync with their personal sense
               of harmony, while a socially driven person dedicates their ef-
               forts to the welfare of others.

           •  Someone driven by  individualistic motives aspires to attain
               the pinnacle of status and control, in contrast to a person with
               traditional motivations who seeks profound significance and
               purpose in their life.



           IDENTIFY DRIVERS THROUGH CLEVER
           QUESTIONS

           Imagine if you could recognize someone’s core values and mo-
           tivations through their body language, vocal tone, and choice of
           words—both the spoken and unspoken cues. By mastering the
           foundational elements of how to evaluate others, you’ll be equipped
           to forge trust and elicit genuine responses. Gradually, you’ll become
           adept at identifying these motivations, tailoring your interactions—

           whether as a salesperson, manager, or HR recruiter—to align with
           the behavioral style of the individual. This knowledge allows you to
           fine-tune your objectives and strategies to more effectively engage
           with others, whether it’s to influence a customer’s purchasing deci-
           sions, inspire peak performance in employees, or ascertain an ap-
           plicant’s suitability for a role within your company.


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