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instruction from God, to be obeyed (Prov. 4:13 says; Hold fast to instructions; do
not let go…).
Love and forgiveness are very important. Love, the Bible says covers a multitude
(a whole lot) of wrongs. If you are truly in love, then you must love indeed. Study
1corinthians 13:1-8. Always make up your mind to let go no matter what
happens. Bearing with one another and forgiving one another……..and put on love
which is the bond of perfection. Colossians 3:13-14. (NKJV).
Know and understand very well who your husband is (every woman is married to
a unique man remember); his likes, dislikes, temperaments/emotional strength,
financial strength etc, then ensure to bring out the king in him. He is your king and
every queen respects her king while he honours her in return. Consider the story
of Abigail in 1Sam.25:1-37 and how her knowledge of her husband saved their
entire household.
Maintain a very healthy communication line that must not be broken no matter
the situation. Discuss freely and agree on all things amicably.
Be wise: Apply wisdom in all. God’s wisdom, and not yours or friends or family
members. Do not blindly follow another person’s experiences (either good or
bad). Inquire from God and He will surely guide you.
The place of prayer must not be neglected for no one can do anything on their
own. Seek God’s face for guidance and direction. Submission is His instruction so
we must depend on Him to help us do it the way He desires. Pray the fruit of the
Spirit (Gal. 5:22-23). Always find out which element of the fruit of the spirit you
need to exhibit more and pray that God should increase that in you. Always pray
for your husband
Some benefits of submission include: