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Please be involved in their lives.

8. Protect your kids. If your child complains about that teacher, uncle or aunty,

rather that shun the child by saying "you lazy child, common go to school" or "am
on my way out, stay there. Uncle will take care of you", please be sensitive and
investigate why that child has become reluctant.

I had an experience with my choir master when I was age nine. He formed a kids
club and my parents registered me there. It was supposed to be fun but it wasn't

for me because during our break time this uncle will call me to his office and ask
me to massage his penis.

I would cry and refuse but He will take my hand and use it to do the job. I was
scared of my military parents so I really couldn't tell them. My mum noticed my

reluctance to attend further programs and got angry but Inquisitive until I poured
out my two- time experience to her. Other kids were questioned and It was
discovered I wasn’t his only Victim. Yes! The man was dealt with. I thank God for

the early Intervention. This brings me to my next point.

9. Befriend your kids. Even Abraham in the bible was a friend of God.

Play with them. Don't be stern with them. This doesn't mean you shouldn't
enforce discipline. Make them feel free to talk you about anything including sex.

Don't be am impossible to please parent by always shouting at your kids. These
create distances between parents and kids.

Allow them make mistakes and correct them in love even if there will be

consequences. For instance, if I warn my son not to play with water and he goes