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Do you say, common go and slap him or bite his ears. Some parents do this and

unknown to them, they are raising violent children. This is why some kids are so
wicked and violent that they could even stab their own siblings.

7. Teach them to be peaceful not trouble makers. But this is dependent on what

they see in the home. Are you and your husband peaceful people or
quarrelsome? Do you have constant fights and arguments in the home? Learn to

take your problems away from the kids. Also as husband and wife, there must be
constant agreement in the home between you. For Instance If daddy says "Ade

kneel down", mummy says " Ade, get up and go to your room". That child will lose
respect for both parents for lack of unity and agreement.

8. Create time for your kids. You must never be too busy to attend to their

emotional, health, psychological, mental, and spiritual needs. The jobs you run
outside are not as important as your kids. If you have time for gossips and movies,

then you must also have time for your kids.

Be involved in their lives. Know their friends and interests. While I was growing

up, I knew a little boy who was an only child of his parents. His parents never paid
attention to him because they were too busy travelling and making money. This

little boy had an older friend who he always confided in and often ate in his
house. This older friend was gay and on a certain day he raped the nine year old

boy and introduced him into homosexuality. What a waste of all the money his
parents had been chasing to give him a great life.

The truth is money is not equal to love. Kids these days watch pornography from
a tender age, they are bewitched by Halloweens and brain washed into believing

in homosexuality from their cartoons. And you can't really blame them if you are
not there to guide them.