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Open Your Eyes
Right before you cum, your eyes will However, the idea of fantasizing
start to close as you go into your orgasm or about something that you find to be erotic
start to ejaculate. Make a conscious effort to can assist you in experiencing a more
open your eyes. This is a way to trick your intense orgasm.
brain in order to prevent your body from going
into "orgasm mode". Imagine something that turns you on
or has an aphrodisiacal effect on you and
Breathe take a mental picture. No one has to know
what is on the picture. It´s your secret! If
A few deep breaths (done quietly) do the image helps you to satisfy your lover, it
wonders for calming the nerves and keeping may never be questioned or labeled as
your penis hard. “cheating”.
Take in a few deep breaths through the Important Tip: The Simple (but
nose and out through the mouth as you slow highly effective) Fail-safe!
your pace. Sometimes, you may have to stop
or preferably pull out and breathe. You'll be Stamina is important and the
surprised at how much control this simple thing following technique and advice will double
gives you! your stamina. If you´re worried or not
focused, you are going to cum too fast.
Keep a slow pace and continue breathing
deeply until you feel that you have control. So, pull out and go down on her.
Once you feel confident, pick up the pace! Look! If you’ve been told that jerking off will
improve your stamina, lose that information.
Either method will allow you to stop Jacking off every chance you get will not
having to distract yourself and therefore, put keep you from cumming too fast. Again,
you back into the moment where you can not have enough control to pull out and go
only last longer, but also enjoy it! down on her. Believe me, she´s not going
anywhere unless you are lousy. Treat that
Sex is better if you can be in the “now”. pussy like a buffet. Women love oral sex.
The idea of thinking about washing dishes,
jogging or something at the job while having Men become emotional and decide
sex is pointless. Give it your all. Put your back against oral sex, at times. Women are
into it and your mind in it. soldiers when it comes to some good
“head”; especially, if you are good enough
to give her orgasms from it. Very few
women are going to mind if you pull out and
go down on her for a bit. If you are hitting it
right, she will be more than happy for you to
put your mouth on her.
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