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Properly Penetrating                                Determining what your lover needs is up to you. You

           The secret to giving a woman                can move slowly or you can move quickly. The idea is to
    heightened satisfaction was to thrust at           please your lover by staying active for 20 minutes as
    specific depths inside her vagina. Of course,      mentioned. Mix it up! Deep thrust, shallow thrusts, angle to
    every man cannot reach the same depths.            the left, angle to the right, push in and wait and of course,
    However, every man should perform various          pull out.
    depths of penetration or thrusts regardless of
    size.                                                    If your girl is not impressed and cumming after the first
                                                       series, work to put in more sets of a different technique. It is

           As for the method that will give staying    important that you not stay in the same position too long.
    power…. Start pumping slowly and give 9            Move your girl into different positions. If you like the doggy
    slow pumps and thereafter, 1 hard thrust.          style and know that you will cum easily, do the motion in the
                                                       ocean move as your finishing move and keep your eyes

           Then give 8 slow pumps and 2 hard           open. Breathe! Do not hold your breath.
    thrusts.


           Continue to breathe and give 7 slow
    pumps and 3 hard thrusts.


           Continue doing this until you reach 1

    slow pump and 9 hard thrusts and start over.


           Attempt to do 3 sets of this technique.
    You will be able to satisfy your woman and
    give her an orgasm that lasts longer than your
    penetration.                                               Teasing

                                                                   Teasing is an act of showing someone
           Another technique will give you that              something they want and not let them have it. You
    “motion in the ocean” effect.                            can use this to your advantage. As a matter of fact, you

    • Imagine the inner thighs as the boundaries,            can create suspense and uncertainty about whether or
       borders or perimeter.                                 not you are going to give in to a sexual encounter.
    • Thrust from the center to the right and back
       to the center. Move slowly.                                 You may not see the impact of teasing, but you
    • When you get over to the left side give 3              will discover that she is hot, wet and ready.
       hard thrusts.
    • Start again, from the center.
                                                                  By not just rushing in, and taking the goodies,
                                                             you have created sexual tensión. Now, is the time to
           Every man should experiment to find a             touch the less sensitive points on her body to increase
    thrusting sequence that works for him. Some              arousal.
    individuals will only want to perform a

    sequence of 3 to 5 shallow strokes and then                   You are driving her crazy and causing her to
    follow with a deep, hard stroke.                         anticípate your next move.







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