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Women of Distinction

is always created whenever to stop trying to get the other first marriage ended. Deena battle ensues regarding the
these parents have contact or parent to change and accept is driven to be the best at distribution of assets.
communicate with each other. they will not be able to work what she does. Her biggest Deena is often called in to
It takes a minimum of three together. The trusting parent reward is that “the kids get a help with these complicated
days for each parent to calm has to understand that they chance to have a normal life.” real estate transactions due to
down after every interaction are the only ones who can “I believe that the painful jour- a conflictual divorce or probate
with the other person. I help take their children out of the ney of my own divorce and case. Her expertise in conflict
parents learn how to control middle. They are the only ones custody conflict happened for resolution is a perfect fit for real
the contact and the commu- who can help their children to a reason; it allowed me to help estate transactions too. Deena
nication with the other parent become resilient, confident, other families going through can lessen her client’s stress
to calm down.” and well-adjusted. It is up to the same thing.” levels by helping them with
“I teach a concept I call the trusting parent to end the In addition to the amazing this process as well. A lot of the
“The Trustline.” Working with fight and save the children. work that Deena does, she negotiating skills and conflict
hundreds of high conflict cou- resolution methods used in her
ples, I have discovered that profession are invaluable while
one of the parents was raised negotiating properties for
in a totally trusting environ- her real estate clients. https://
ment. As a baby, the family drdeenahomes.com/
met all of their needs. As a I had to ask Deena how
result, they became totally she de-stresses when she is
trusting people. They learned in such an intense profession.
to be nurturing, and by two “My husband is in an equally
years of age, they developed stressful field, he is a divorce
the neuro connections in their attorney, so we both love to
brain to develop a conscience. travel and try new adventures.
These people also learned to I love to laugh and have fun
be caring, compassion, re- too. Most of all, I love to play
sponsible, respectful, and nur- with our two adorable grand-
turing. They are driven by love children, these are the things
to help others. Unfortunately, that make me happy and give
the other parent was raised me so much joy.”
in a completely different Deena and her husband
environment filled with chaos, use their individual skills and
confusion, and conflict. They talents to offer another level
did not get their needs met as of care to those people going
a baby. They did not develop through divorce. “We offer
the neuro connections to free workshops twice a month
form a conscience. They did for anyone who has legal
not get the neuro connec- questions related to divorce,
tors to become a respectful, custody, and family law issues.
responsible, and emotionally This concept is revolutionary, has another love, which she https://www.stacerlaw.com/
intelligent person. They do since most professionals in began in 1979 when she ob- workshop/
not have the ability to be the court system still insist tained her real estate license. It is obvious when you
nurturing or caring. These that parents must learn to “I grew up with my grandpa meet Deena that she deeply
distrusting people are driven work together to get along. doing real estate, and I was so cares about all of her clients.
to survive. They use manip- These parents actually need intrigued by it. So, I decided She is probably one of the
ulation of others to get their a giant time out from each to get my license. I did a little most caring individuals I have
needs met. When these two other not time together!” bit of real estate and then I ever met, and she brings this
diverse people get together This experience of being in stopped to have my children. into everything she does. If
and have children, they will such a terrible battle over the I came back to real estate in you are struggling with con-
have conflict because of their children was enough to drive 2002 and immediately earned flict in your life, I cannot think
core beliefs. When they break Deena to continue doing my broker's license. Real of anyone who would be a
up, their conflict will include extensive research and keep estate is often filled with high better fit to help bring peace
custody battles over the honing her craft. She wanted emotion, especially when to your life.
children.” to help other women to get families are sometimes torn You can reach Deena Stacer at
What Deena has to do is to through the same struggle apart after the loss of a family 858-229-8072, or by email at
help the trusting parent learn she had to endure when her member or a divorce when a Doc@DeenaStacer.com

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