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Fully expect your love partner to have other passionate interests other than you. To extend the
freedom to develop her own interests in other people and hobbies can only empower your
relationship. Freedom can never confine. It can never be detrimental to the relationship. It can
only open up many exciting and previously undiscovered opportunities to enjoy life.
When your love partner is pursuing areas in which she excels, she is happy. You will enjoy her
most when she is happy. People are easier to love when they are happy.
Trust should be forever present in your love relationship; trust and deep commitment to each
other, and loyalty and devotion. Be ever mindful of re-earning her trust and showing the trust
you have in her. This allows us the freedom to care about people of the opposite sex and to
enjoy friendships with them, and when you sit down together in the evening to share the events
of the day, you do not have to ask if our love partner has been faithful.
The stronger and more secure you become, the more you are willing to be yourselves while
encouraging your love partner to do the same.
Genuine unconditional love not only respects the individuality of the other but actually seeks to
cultivate it, even at the risk of separation or loss. The ultimate goal remains the spiritual growth of
your love partner, the solitary journey to peaks that can be climbed only alone.
Believe that no matter how committed your relationship, you will always be "single" as well as a
part of a couple. Unconditional love is a special, intense connection, and it is not an answer to
all or even most individual problems. No one can make you happy but you.
The Power of Love
Most of us at some time or another will ask ourselves “What am I here for?” “What’s my purpose
in life?” “Where did I come from, where am I going?” At some time or another, we all ponder
the reasons for our human existence.
When you look back over your life, you will discover that your most precious assets are the
thoughts and memories of the people you have loved and who have loved you.
From the most respected research, the most popular conclusion is that love is the most
important thing in the world. Everything we read about the meaning and purpose of life brings
us back to the idea and the importance of love.
Everything you do to make you love and respect yourself makes you more capable of
expressing love towards others. Each time you do or say something kind or loving towards
someone else, you increase the amount of love you have for yourself. When you express love in
some way, you make the world a better place.
Each time you express love towards someone else, whether they need it or not, you improve the
quality of his or her life. At the same time, you improve the quality of your own life too. You make
your life a blessing to others around you, and a wonderful experience for yourself.
Love is the one thing we can never have too much of, either for yourself or for others. A lack of
love or withdrawal of love sits at the core of most of the problems of the human condition.
Whatever the question, love is always the answer.