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         Fully expect your love partner to have other passionate interests other than you. To extend the
         freedom to develop her own interests in other people and hobbies can only empower your
         relationship. Freedom can never confine. It can never be detrimental to the relationship. It can
         only open up many exciting and previously undiscovered opportunities to enjoy life.

         When your love partner is pursuing areas in which she excels, she is happy. You will enjoy her
         most when she is happy. People are easier to love when they are happy.

         Trust should be forever present in your love relationship; trust and deep commitment to each
         other, and loyalty and devotion.  Be ever mindful of re-earning her trust and showing the trust
         you have in her. This allows us the freedom to care about people of the opposite sex and to
         enjoy friendships with them, and when you sit down together in the evening to share the events
         of the day, you do not have to ask if our love partner has been faithful.

         The stronger and more secure you become, the more you are willing to be yourselves while
         encouraging your love partner to do the same.

         Genuine unconditional love not only respects the individuality of the other but actually seeks to
         cultivate it, even at the risk of separation or loss. The ultimate goal remains the spiritual growth of
         your love partner, the solitary journey to peaks that can be climbed only alone.


         Believe that no matter how committed your relationship, you will always be "single" as well as a
         part of a couple. Unconditional love is a special, intense connection, and it is not an answer to
         all or even most individual problems. No one can make you happy but you.

         The Power of Love


         Most of us at some time or another  will ask ourselves “What am I here for?” “What’s my purpose
         in life?” “Where did I come from, where am I going?” At some time or another, we all ponder
         the reasons for our human existence.

         When you look back over your life, you will discover that your most precious assets are the
         thoughts and memories of the people you have loved and who have loved you.

         From the most respected research, the most popular conclusion is that love is the most
         important thing in the world. Everything we read about the meaning and purpose of life brings
         us back to the idea and the importance of love.


         Everything you do to make you love and respect yourself makes you more capable of
         expressing love towards others. Each time you do or say something kind or loving towards
         someone else, you increase the amount of love you have for yourself.  When you express love in
         some way, you make the world a better place.

         Each time you express love towards someone else, whether they need it or not, you improve the
         quality of his or her life. At the same time, you improve the quality of your own life too. You make
         your life a blessing to others around you, and a wonderful experience for yourself.


         Love is the one thing we can never have too much of, either for yourself or for others. A lack of
         love or withdrawal of love sits at the core of most of the problems of the human condition.
         Whatever the question, love is always the answer.
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