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fears and mistrust melt away. You have the power to make her feel so cherished, so beautiful, that never again will she feel jealous or insecure. , . . Why wouldn’t
you want to find those words?
The Loving Embrace
A simple embrace can be more intimate than the most passionate sex, and more meaningful than the most honest conversation. Whenever you feel disconnected
from the love you share with your partner, ask your partner to hold you. There is a world of a difference between an embrace and a hug. A hug can be something
you share with friends, that “hello, it’s been a while type hug” whereas a loving embrace is so much more. With a loving embrace, you can absorb all your partners
worries and fears, and make them feel comforted and safe. Something magical can happen to you when you are held in your lover's arms. You forget about the
things that you thought mattered, and remember the things that really do matter. You get out of your head and back into your heart. . . .
The Loving Touch
All too often, we can be clumsy and invasive with our touch. A good lover trains to speak the language of love with grace and eloquence. Like any
language, the language of touch must be learned, practiced, and mastered if you are to become fluent in it. ... It's not enough to know where to touch
your partner . . . you have to know how to touch him or her. There is nothing stronger than feeling immense love in your heart and allowing that energy
to flow through you into the touch you pass on to the one you love.
Kissing
Kissing is one of the most intimate sexual acts you can experience. When you place your mouth on the mouth of the person you love, you are sharing the very life
breath of that person. As with touch, if you set aside feelings of lust, and replace them with your heartfelt feelings of love, it will transfer into your kiss. The passionate
kiss stands alone as an act in which both lovers are equally open to one another, our hearts are open and our souls breathe together.
LOSS OF LOVE
Love nourishes the deepest level of our being. It feeds our soul, our heart, even our body. With it, we thrive. Without it, we become love-starved.
From the time we enter this world, there is something we need more than food, water, and air to live a meaningful life - we need love. When our heart is fed with
intimacy, affection, and communication, the hunger for love is satisfied. But when we are deprived of these things, our heart is hungry, and we become love-
starved.
Many men and women are walking around hungry for attention, for affection, for appreciation, for love, just like infants who were not touched or nurtured.
Sadly, we’re not just talking about single people, but about people in a relationship with a partner who, perhaps without realising it, is emotionally starving them
by not adequately feeding their heart.
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If we feel starved of love, we're not getting enough of the things we need to feel safe, valued, and connected, so we feel a sense of emptiness inside of us. Nature
abhors a vacuum and many of us deal with that emptiness in ways that ultimately do not serve us. We try to fill ourselves up with other things - food, alcohol,