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www.i-am-magazine.com16How Do I Break This Pattern To GetBack To Who I Really Am?The good, actually GREAT news, is thatit%u2019s not who you are. It%u2019s just a pattern.It%u2019s a pattern you developed years ago toavoid pain and or gain pleasure. It was apattern you developed to meet yourneeds at some level, or at least not losethem too much. There was most likely atime and place where that pattern helpedyou get what you needed at the time.So hug yourself for figuring outsomething that worked at that time andplace. If you survived you did somethingright. If it wasn%u2019t the best strategy, it wasa strategy that worked%u2026at that time andplace. The question is: %u201cdo you still needto do that strategy, to run that pattern?%u201dThe odds are, probably not.Working with a professional one-on-onecould help break the conditionedpatterns, so you can finally get back towho you really are. Great relationshipsaren%u2019t about self-sacrifice, or about powerstruggles. Great relationships start withbeing fully yourself. Starting first with therelationship with yourself and then withother people.I believe especially in living out of truegenuine love. Love where you give,