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Charlie	spent	the	last	529	days	thinking	about	losing	176	pounds	instead	of 	juicing.
What	would	have	happened?	Nothing.	Alexandra	also	found	her	way	to	a	healthier
lifestyle	by	juicing:

    Charlie	and	Alexandra	both	found	that	when	you	follow	your	instincts	to	lead	a
healthier	lifestyle	by	taking	a	courageous	action,	change	starts	to	happen	in	your	life.

    It	 takes	 courage	 to	 start	 something,	 it	 takes	 courage	 to	 stick	 with	 it,	 and	 it
definitely	 takes	 courage	 to	 share	 it	 with	 the	 world.	 That’s	 what	 Pakinam	 described
to	me.	Courage	is	what	it	required	to	lose	weight	 because	 sometimes,	as	 Pakinam
writes,	the	gap	between	where	you	are	and	where	you	want	to	be	can	seem	so	huge,
that	we	can’t	even	face	how	much	work	we	have	to	do:

    Hi	Mel,
    For	my	entire	life	I	have	been	over	weight.	Now	I	am	trying	to	diet	for	the	first	time	in	my	life.	I	feel	lost	and	trapped,	but
    I	keep	on	going.	I	have	a	massive	feeling	of 	insecurity	and	vulnerability.	Can	you	please	explain	this?

    The	 short	 answer	 is	 that	 the	 gap	 between	 the	 person	 you	 are	 now	 and	 the
person	you	want	to	become	can	seem	so	big	that	it	feels	impossible	to	bridge	that
gap.	Feeling	this	way	is	normal,	but	allowing	those	feelings	to	take	over	your	mind	is
a	form	of 	self-abuse.
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