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friends, who must have worked hard and honed their skills, will be
                more capable and have a better career than you.  You will then
                realize that you have spoiled your entire life. You will regret your past

                decisions and mistakes; you will have nothing but regrets. But by
                that time, you will have run out of time to make something out of
                yourself. Nobody finds a well-paying and secure job without
                procuring relevant skills. And what would you do if the small job is
                taken away from you?

                It is possible to earn money at a young age, but, your time is the
                most precious element. In reality, you are earning less and losing

                more. Your time is precious because you can use it to become
                someone you want to be. If you invest your time properly, it will
                enable you to get a job of your choice, which will be a permanent
                one, and make your life much better.


                There is no alternative to being patient. Some things take time to
                happen. If you plant a sapling today, it will take its own time to turn
                into a tree. Even if you water the saplings 10 times a day, will it
                become big in just one day? Will it start blessing you with fruits and
                flowers from the next day itself? No. Often, people take patience as
                weakness, but in your arsenal, this is the sharpest arrow. A very few
                people are blessed with this quality, and you should try and develop

                it within you.

                One reason for tension is uncertainty—whether you are going in the
                right direction or not. And another reason is – your tendency to
                compare yourself with others. You should never compare your start
                with someone’s years of practice. You have only just started with

                your learnings; comparison and competition will anyway take place
                in the examination.

                Reading is fun, but because of what people say about studying and
                learning, we start having misconceptions.  You will believe in your
                friends when they say that studying is a boring activity. If your friends
                say that putting cake on the face while celebrating birthdays is

                enjoyment then you start believing in that too. You have to listen to
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