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his mind would have worked differently. He would have known that it
                works and it is beneficial to him. This would have prompted him to be
                curious to learn new things, he would have been enthusiastic. He

                would easily sit among intellectuals, learn new things and pass it on
                to others.

                Inculcating a good habit leads you to another positive habit. A bad
                habit takes you away from your goal.

                The biggest question is about the amount of strength and motivation
                required for developing a good habit. If you feel that you need

                persuasion to develop a habit and keep following it, then how do you
                make this entire process easy for yourself? Let me illustrate this by
                giving an example- Imagine that there is a heavy iron chain kept on
                your table. This chain is so heavy that you can only move it a little;
                you cannot lift it up. Your aim is to throw the chain on the floor, and

                for that you pull an end of it to shift it. If this chain is to be thrown
                down, how much effort do you need to put into it? Is it really
                necessary to pull the entire chain down? No, you don’t have to do
                that. Because: when only 1/3rd part of the chain is left on the desk, it
                will slip down automatically due to its weight. Your effort is needed
                only to pull down one side of the chain, the rest will fall by itself.


                This is the beauty of having a good habit—it pulls you towards
                success. The weight of a habit is more than that of any kind of
                motivation. Another positive thing is that once a good habit gets
                developed, you cannot quit it easily.
                Now, it is entirely up to you as to what kind of habit you want to
                develop. All you have to remember is that with age, habits become

                more rooted, more permanent. The power that your habits will
                acquire with every passing year, will make it all the more difficult for
                you to quit them. It would also be difficult to replace old habits with
                new ones. As the old saying goes,” Old habits die hard.” So, choose
                your habits wisely.

                “Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going.”-

                Jim Ryun.
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