Page 44 - Failure to Triumph - Journey of A Student

You do not have to think that you will be all alone without a partner,
and even if you feel a bit lonely, remember that it is temporary and
you have to make little sacrifices for your career. You have to

remember that the history of this world is the history of very few
people. If you observe keenly, you would see that, whoever has
created history or has been able to record his name in history books,
has always been able to conquer his own loneliness. Loneliness and
solitude can be your greatest friend if you know how to use it. Since
your childhood till your youth you have always been surrounded by
people, first in school, and then in college and university. You could
never understand the meaning of a solitude life. Being secluded

helps you to develop your personality, and makes you mentally
strong. When you are always surrounded by people, you are never
able to identify yourself. You get away from your inner self and fail to
recognize and hear the voice within you. You are not able to
understand the real meaning of happiness because you are always

surrounded by people and noise. You think that keeping the mind
busy is the only way to happiness. You have to brace yourself for
loneliness and you have to let go of the fear of loneliness. This
loneliness which comes to you when you focus on your career, won’t
kill you. When you actually focus on your studies you will find that
you are no longer feeling lonely. If you are in a relationship during
your preparation stages, you are taking a very big risk. Unfortunately,

if you encounter a break up, your mental state goes for a toss and all
your preparations gets derailed. The uncertainty about getting
married to your chosen partner can also disturb you. It is also
possible that your partner gets ahead in life and you remain stuck
where you are, this will also affect your mental state. However, in
this scenario it is both uncharacteristic and foolish to expect that your

partner will wait for you.

Getting stuck in one-sided love is another big issue. This is
something which can have a very strong impact on your
psychological condition. On the other hand, the other person does
not care or has no idea about what you are going through. But, in
your mind, you start building your castles in air. You start believing

that you will not be able to live without that person. To you, that