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inside is outside. Trust that the universe
        has brought the perfect person to you

        over and over so you can see these split-
        off parts of your psyche. If we can look

        at our lives in this way, if we can say to
        ourselves: What does this want from
        me? What issues need to be discussed?

        What am I hiding from myself?



        In John Sanford’s book Between People
        Communicating One-to-One, he lists three
        different ways that we communicate that

        don’t work very well and I will list them:
        1)  When a person talks at you they will

        communicate by talking and talking, not
        ever stopping to breathe. It becomes a
        monologue instead of a dialogue.

        2) If they keep interrupting you when
        you’re trying to say something showing

        you they don’t really want to hear what
        you’re saying no matter what you say.
        3) They make pronouncements. For

        instance, “This is it. End of discussion.
        Nothing more to talk about,” ending

        the discussion prematurely before you                  In the end, I became more like my
        have the chance to put forth all that you              partner Trish and she became more
        wanted to discuss.                                     like me. That is the GOLD and why

                                                               the unconscious has brought to us this
        We are all capable of all of this. I’m not             particular person. It was our fate. Her
        talking about they or them, I’m talking about  mother and my father were born the same

        all of us. Instead of blaming each other, we           day, the same year. They had the same
        can grow from all relationships when we                energy. Our parents live inside us even

        are willing to see our own opposites being             after they are gone. It is remarkable to see
        played out in our polarizations. The biggest           how the unconscious of each person sets

        problem of relating with others is often               it up for us to see our opposites. I tell a
        incomplete communication.                              longer version of this story in my Shadow





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