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inside is outside. Trust that the universe
has brought the perfect person to you

over and over so you can see these split-
off parts of your psyche. If we can look

at our lives in this way, if we can say to
ourselves: What does this want from
me? What issues need to be discussed?

What am I hiding from myself?

In John Sanford’s book Between People
Communicating One-to-One, he lists three
different ways that we communicate that

don’t work very well and I will list them:
1) When a person talks at you they will

communicate by talking and talking, not
ever stopping to breathe. It becomes a
monologue instead of a dialogue.

2) If they keep interrupting you when
you’re trying to say something showing

you they don’t really want to hear what
you’re saying no matter what you say.
3) They make pronouncements. For

instance, “This is it. End of discussion.
Nothing more to talk about,” ending

the discussion prematurely before you In the end, I became more like my
have the chance to put forth all that you partner Trish and she became more
wanted to discuss. like me. That is the GOLD and why

the unconscious has brought to us this
We are all capable of all of this. I’m not particular person. It was our fate. Her
talking about they or them, I’m talking about mother and my father were born the same

all of us. Instead of blaming each other, we day, the same year. They had the same
can grow from all relationships when we energy. Our parents live inside us even

are willing to see our own opposites being after they are gone. It is remarkable to see
played out in our polarizations. The biggest how the unconscious of each person sets

problem of relating with others is often it up for us to see our opposites. I tell a
incomplete communication. longer version of this story in my Shadow

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