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been there a long time, Abimelek king of the Philistines looked down from a window
and saw Isaac caressing his wife Rebekah. So Abimelek summoned Isaac and said, “She
is really your wife! Why did you say, ‘She is my sister’?” Isaac answered him, “Because I
thought I might lose my life on account of her.” Then Abimelek said, “What is this you
have done to us? One of the men might well have slept with your wife, and you would
have brought guilt upon us.” So Abimelek gave orders to all the people: “Anyone who
harms this man or his wife shall surely be put to death.”

Proverbs 5:18–19 “May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your
youth. A loving doe, a graceful deer - may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever
be intoxicated with her love.”

Song of Solomon 7:1–9 “How beautiful your sandaled feet, O prince’s daughter! Your
graceful legs are like jewels, the work of an artist’s hands. Your navel is a rounded
goblet that never lacks blended wine. Your waist is a mound of wheat encircled by lilies.
Your breasts are like two fawns, like twin fawns of a gazelle. Your neck is like an ivory
tower. Your eyes are the pools of Heshbon by the gate of Bath Rabbim. Your nose is like
the tower of Lebanon looking toward Damascus. Your head crowns you like Mount
Carmel. Your hair is like royal tapestry; the king is held captive by its tresses. How
beautiful you are and how pleasing, my love, with your delights! Your stature is like that
of the palm, and your breasts like clusters of fruit. I said, “I will climb the palm tree; I
will take hold of its fruit.” May your breasts be like clusters of grapes on the vine, the
fragrance of your breath like apples, and your mouth like the best wine. May the wine
go straight to my beloved, flowing gently over lips and teeth.”

Song of Solomon 5:10–16 “My beloved is radiant and ruddy, outstanding among
ten thousand. His head is purest gold; his hair is wavy and black as a raven.
His eyes are like doves by the water streams, washed in milk, mounted like
jewels. His cheeks are like beds of spice yielding perfume. His lips are like
lilies dripping with myrrh. His arms are rods of gold set with topaz. His body
is like polished ivory decorated with lapis lazuli. His legs are pillars of marble
set on bases of pure gold. His appearance is like Lebanon, choice as its
cedars. His mouth is sweetness itself; he is altogether lovely. This is my
beloved, this is my friend, daughters of Jerusalem.”

These passages in the song of Solomon are not to be interpreted only as an allegory of
the love of Jesus Christ for the church. Song of Solomon is a song exalting the beauty of
the sexual relationship between a husband and wife. And in the first passage we see that
the husband was complementing and enjoying the beauty of his wife's body. In the
second passage we see the wife doing the same about her husband's body. Can you
imagine how wonderful your wife would feel if her husband complimented her body in
that way? This would give her confidence as she gives herself to you, her husband. This is the way God
designed it to be. Husbands, I challenge you to apply these passages of scripture and help your wife
experience the kind words expressed in the Song of Solomon. Wives, I challenge you to respond, enjoy your
husband’s compliments, and compliment him as well.

The New Testament teaches that a husband and wife do not own their own body. Rather they have mutual
ownership over each other’s body.

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