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THE PROSPEROUS SOUL

          6)  Forgive Freely

          There may be times when you are not able to resolve a disagreement
          even  after  you’ve  talked  it  through  with  your  friend.  In  those  cases,
          forgive  freely  and  keep  your  heart  free  of  bitterness.  Don’t  keep
          rehearsing the issue over and over in your mind.   Pray, let it go and trust
          God to work it out.

               Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has
                 a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.
                 (Colossians 3:13)
               Love … keeps no record of wrongs (1 Corinthians 13:5)

          7)  Be Confidential and Trustworthy

          It goes without saying that we must be careful not to betray the trust
          placed in us by a friend. Similarly, we should be wary of someone who
          carelessly discloses information about someone that could harm how
          that person is seen by others. Such a person cannot be trusted with our
          own personal information. Furthermore, that person’s gossip can sow
          seeds of mistrust and separation among friends.

               A perverse person stirs up conflict, and a gossip separates close
                 friends (Proverbs16:28)
               Whoever would foster love covers over an offense, but
                 whoever repeats the matter separates close friends. (Proverbs
                 17:9)

          8)  Be a Blessing to your Friend and Pray for each Other

          Everyone will go through difficult times.  Be  willing  to  walk  with your
          friend through good times. Do what you can to help your friend get
          through difficult times. Take the time to pray for your friend. Bring their
          issues and concerns before the Lord. Sometimes, partnering in prayer
          with someone who is confidential and trustworthy can be the basis of a
          strong friendship.

               A friend always loves, and a brother is born for a time of adversity
                 (Proverbs 17:17).


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