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2. When are the appropriate times to talk about family and relationships?

Sample answer:
I think it is natural during casual conversation when you’re getting to know another
person more to ask about his or her family. However, care should be taken so that the
person would not feel that you’re intruding. It can also be important to talk about a
colleague’s family if something significant has recently happened which could affect
her job.

3. Do you think family and relationships significantly affect a person’s perfor-
mance professionally?

Sample answer:
I think a person’s family and relationships can provide a support system for the person,
so they are definitely important. However, I also think that unless something signifi-
cant has happened; the person’s job should not be that largely affected by events in
the family or relationships. It is important for any working individual to be able to bal-
ance work and personal life.

1. You heard that your friend’s mother has passed away three days ago. You’ve
been noticing that she seems preoccupied lately.

Sample answer:
Anna, I heard that your mother recently passed away. I offer my sincere condolences
to you and your family. I hope you’re not having difficulties with the arrangements. It
is hard as I’ve experienced when dad passed away. We had an upcoming presentation
around that time so I could not take much time to be with my family. It was difficult
and I had trouble concentrating on my work sometimes. You know you can always
talk to me if you want. Don’t hesitate to approach me if there’s anything I can help you
with.

2. Your co-worker Sam just had a baby. He is a first time father and is very ex-
ciTed. On the other hand, he also seems stressed and sleep-deprived lately.

Sample answer:
Hi Sam, I just heard that your wife recently gave birth. Congratulations! Having my
first child is one of the most rewarding things. Well, it is great but also very tiring to
attend to the baby’s needs. My wife and I had a similar experience. Well, I just did my
best. It does get better as you get used to it. I reminded myself that I need this job to
be able to raise my daughter well and that’s how I made it through each day.

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