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HO PE   FO R   THE  NEXT   G ENER ATI O N

                               ILLUSTRATIONS
         Mother and little Daniel went to Shoprite and Daniel see the
                              inviting candy display;


        ·  Daniel: I want some Candy Mummy
        ·  Mummy: No honey, not today
        ·  Daniel: But why? I want some candy, am hungry.
        ·  Mummy: it is already close to lunch and you have had enough
             candy for today. And besides is not food, I will get you snacks.
        ·  Daniel: But I want some more, I want some candy!!
        ·  Mummy: No Daniel. Now come along, do you hear me?


      And so goes the battle, Daniel proceeds to flop on the floor crying,
      kicking  his  feet  and  grasping  a  handful  of  candy.  Finally  in
      desperation and because people are looking, Mummy says; oh all
      right,  have  some  candy  but  come  on  am  in  a  hurry.  Daniel  has
      manipulated his mother; He has also learned that if he makes a scene
      in public, he can get his way.


      Not every mother will tolerate such and act the same way to such
      stubbornness, so children learn quickly what it takes to get what they
      want. Some mothers in that situation can pout and whine, others may
      spank, scold or bat their eyelashes but if the parents give in the
      results are the same


      In any case, these children are not learning happy obedience, or
      submission, nor respect or honour to what is right. Instead, they are
      learning to get what they want in their own way and to act selfishly
      towards their parents' wishes and wisdom.


                          Proverbs 22: 15 ''Foolishness is
             bound in the heart of a child, but the rod of correction
                             shall drive it far from him.'’
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