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Vogelhuber, Scheelen - What people really want

                     Profiling³  broadens  the  perspective  and  enables  trust  to
                     be built by better assessing one's own personality and the
                     personality, character and mentality of another person.

                   That's what it's all about - not more, but also not less. The
                   following story from Oliver illustrates this:


                     The lollipop Olli

                     As  a  trainer  and  coach,  I  work  with  ATP  and  WTA  tennis  pros.  And  I
                     started  coaching  children  and  giving  them  tennis  lessons  when  I  was
                     about twelve years old. Of course, at that time I was concerned about
                     how I could get the kids to participate diligently and train properly and
                     trust me. After all, the problem with motivation is not an invention of
                     modern  times.  As  a  small  incentive  and  motivational  candy,  I  bought
                     some lollipops at that time to give to the children. This was done in all
                     innocence and worked out great - I quickly got rid of the nickname Lolli-
                     Olli.

                     By the way, this did not work for all the children; some of them were
                     more likely to be encouraged to train diligently because they loved the
                     game  of  tennis  for  its  own  sake.  Or  because  they  liked  to  train  in  a
                     group  and  as  a  team,  i.e.  to  get  something  going  together  with
                     t h e i r  comrades.


                     Anyway, word got around about my talent as a young trainer, and the
                     children  told  me  at  home  how  much  fun  they  were  having  and  how
                     much  they  were  learning.  So  it's  no  wonder  that  first  some  of  the
                     mothers, and then some of the fathers, came to me and bought training
                     lessons from me - by then, of course, I was already a bit older.







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