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The Vaginal Orgasm
This orgasm requires lots of
relaxation and can be achieved through
penetration alone.
The Urethral Orgasm
A small area of sensitive tissue
above and on either side of the urethral opening.
Gently caress with a finger. Powerful orgasm.
The A-Spot Orgasm
Located on the same wall as the G-
spot, about 4 to 5 inches deep in the vagina. The
best position for this is missionary and the good
news is that it only requires short strokes.
Understanding Women
Men are turned on by graphic images. Yes,
like porn! However, a many can get off with
what they see as sexy. And then there are
those whom need to be touched. Hand or
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or mouth to the groin area and they are all in.
Women are different. Women need
something more subtle and gradual.
Providing images for women isn’t
necessary because women can be rather
cerebral when it comes to sex. They picture
themselves in romance novels. They imagine
the environment, how it smells, the emotions,
the people in the scene and everything else that
a guy might miss.
Women are special creatures. They can
get heated with something as simple as a
massage with no hidden agenda. You can rub
your girl’s shoulders, or comb, brush or braid
her hair and then you get that look. She is
ready.
Its simple. Women aren’t like light
switches. They are more light building a fire.
They happen gradually.
So, you don’t want to touch the wrong
areas or move too fast, if you aim to please her
and yourself. Once you understand this, you
can give a woman unforgettable orgasms. After
all, being relaxed during sex isn’t as sexy as
believed.