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Dealing with Premature Ejaculation

Premature ejaculation is due to heightened sensitivity to touch being aggravated. This
gives a predisposition toward quicker ejaculation and when the sensitivity is increased in a person
with this issue, sex cannot be sustained or pre-ejaculation is imminent.

Fear, anxiety or nervousness may be associated with this problem. Sometimes, the
condition may be due to high cholesterol deposits in the blood vessels of the penis and the whole
reproductive system. This causes lack of sphincter control which results in premature ejaculation

when blood vessels become thick and narrow so that blood supply to the muscles of the penis
and prostate is inadequate. Below are ways to improve your sexual stamina or performance.

Is the Tongue the Key?

Going down on a woman is not a game winner. You and she may enjoy it, but it is not
enough to satisfy her. Besides, orgasms of a woman are 10 times more intense from
penetration of a penis than by any other means. There isn’t a tongue vibrator or strap-on that
can replace the force that accompanies penetration by a penis.

Women love and need penetration. To no surprise, you need to spend enough time
penetrating the woman so that her brain registers the presence of the penis and the chemical

that says you are “it”.

If you can’t give her sexual satisfaction, there is a
possibility that she may not be attracted to you. It doesn’t
mean that she won’t be with you. It doesn’t mean she won’t
accept your gifts or put
up with your shit. Women like security. So, it is

likely that she will.

Truthfully, you don’t need a “big penis”. You just need
to penetrate or stay in her for a minimum of 20 minutes and
you will be “the man”. C’mon! Twenty minutes can be done.

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